Why dont people that say they're my friends invite me to hnag out?

i'm really good at gettin people to like me. i have a lot of friends n people always seem to enjoy hanging out with me.but yet i never really get invited to hang out with people.when i invite people over they're very enthusiastic but they never return the favor...?
Why dont people that say they're my friends invite me to hnag out?
anna banana
Reply:Your on the fringe of the group.





You need to move to the core, your going to have to insert yourself, be the one who makes the plans, be the one who is the "go to person" for things to do.





If your a follower they arent that likely to invite you because you dont really bring value to the group, if you have something that adds value your likely to be invited, if your a planner than your doing the inviting.








Basically you need to be more socially aggressive, not towards others, but towards activities.
Reply:Girl, they don't like you! Girls are bitches, I know, I am one. I know you think they're you're friends, but trust, they aren't. A lot of times, especially with females they will act like they like you, just so they can use you or they'll keep you around for amusement. If they don't invite you to their functions then stop talking to them, and stop inviting them to yours! As far as you having alot of friends goes. I would be selective about who I did and didn't call my friend. Trust me when push comes to shove, and you really need someone, I can almost garuarentee only a handful (if you're lucky) of those girls will still be around!
Reply:maybe they view you as being really cool, so they're intimidated. or because you always plan everything, they never think of it. they might be really busy too.


and maybe since you have so many friends, you don't really belong to a specific clique so all of your friends have their own little side cliques, ya know?


so you should hang out with them, and then if they say you should hang out again, tell them to call YOU and see what happens!
Reply:because they don't truly like you. you're probably really annoying, but they don't wanna hurt your feelings by being mean to your face. they probably don't invite you and then talk **** ab you.





it's how most girls are.


girls are bitches, it's life.





get some guy friends, they're much cooler:)
Reply:what kind of friends do you have then..


thats very mean of them


talk to them about how you feel if they are really your friend they will


feel shame of themselves for not inviting you anywhere and they will


apologize...
Reply:Either:


1. They secretly dislike you


2. They assume you have closer friends to hang out with/plans
Reply:some people are kind of shady, sounds like you should probably try hanging out with other friends that always keep you in the loop
Reply:because you are anoying or people dont really like you too bad sorry