It woud be greatly appreciated, NavalAviator08@yahoo.com
Thanks
I know many have requested Demonoid invites, but is there a user willing to send me an invite?
Yes I am very interested to send you an invitation of demonoid.com. But you have to be patient because demonoid's server is down now and it is not opening. I should send you invitation as soon as I can.
Reply:see below link
http://jnanashakthi.blogspot.com/2007/06...
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Saturday, October 24, 2009
I Smoke and I Have Been Invited To Do a Diving Course This Christmas, Is This Dangerous?
I wouldn't say I smoke heavily, probably 10 cigarettes a day for 4 years average, but I have been invited to do a scuba diving course in december and I was wondering whether this could harm me because of pressures and oxygen tanks or anything like that, any help or information is useful to me.
I Smoke and I Have Been Invited To Do a Diving Course This Christmas, Is This Dangerous?
There shouldn't be any issue unless you actually have a lung problem. I'm a pack a day smoker for 30 years and dive both commercially as well as recreationally. About the only issue some smokers have, is a tendency not to be able to equalize as easily as a non smoker. It's due to the irritation smoke causes to nasal passages. No biggie though, you'll still be able to equalize with practise.
Reply:I dunno about Ryan's comment about non smokers having a tank last longer, all else being equal. I usually outlast all the divers I'm with and I'm what would be considered more than a moderate smoker. Report Abuse
Reply:no, but you should try to quit it will help your breathing and make your air last longer.
I Smoke and I Have Been Invited To Do a Diving Course This Christmas, Is This Dangerous?
There shouldn't be any issue unless you actually have a lung problem. I'm a pack a day smoker for 30 years and dive both commercially as well as recreationally. About the only issue some smokers have, is a tendency not to be able to equalize as easily as a non smoker. It's due to the irritation smoke causes to nasal passages. No biggie though, you'll still be able to equalize with practise.
Reply:I dunno about Ryan's comment about non smokers having a tank last longer, all else being equal. I usually outlast all the divers I'm with and I'm what would be considered more than a moderate smoker. Report Abuse
Reply:no, but you should try to quit it will help your breathing and make your air last longer.
Can someone invite me to Boxee.tv? i'm a windows user!?
my emails is justin.walsh9@yahoo.ca (:
Can someone invite me to Boxee.tv? i'm a windows user!?
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Can someone invite me to Boxee.tv? i'm a windows user!?
http://www.boxee.tv/index.php?join
girl name
Would you invite a strange in your house to spend the night, if it was cold???
I would not deny anyone in need a place to sleep. I would make sure they were legitimately in need and offer them food and drink and a warm place to sleep. I think I would want to be treated the same way if I was desperate and in need.
Would you invite a strange in your house to spend the night, if it was cold???
Depends on what she looked like.
Reply:The sad thing is that it isn't safe to do that now. I would however...give the person something hot to drink or eat or both, and give them blankets.
Reply:No, that is too dangerous nowadays.
Reply:As much as I would love to be able to say yes unfortunately I have to answer no. I know too many people who have let someone they hardly know spend the night at their house cuz they had no where to go and the weather was awful. Unfortunately when morning rolled around the person was gone along with a lot of their stuff.
Reply:I don't think so. You dont know the person and you never know what they can do to you.
Reply:In a place where I've came across people faking a road accident and rob the passerby's car who stop to help, I won't even trust that stranger. the first thing that cross my mind is probably he's faking it to get into someone's home...
Reply:Odds are against it.
Reply:um.. no
Reply:prolly not, only if they were homeless or something =]
Reply:I really doubt it.
Reply:no but they could sleep in my shed. After I locked them in with a stern warning
Reply:No, especially because I have a child. It's not mean, it's just being safe. Would however drive them to the nearest shelter though. Noone should be out in the cold.
Reply:Probably not. Might call the pastor to see if they could sleep in the church.
Reply:Probably not...I wouldn't be able to sleep...
Reply:No, I would say, "Be gone, you filthy beast!" Actually that's what I had to say to my next-door neighbor last week after her husband walked out on her. Oh well.
Reply:probly, although not safe
Reply:if i had the heart to do it, shure why not
Reply:I would help them get to the Salvation Army because I wouldn't let a stranger in my home.It is sad that this day and age is so scary.
Reply:Sassy Gal 2
Update: What? She's a stranger and I'd invite her in a minute.
Would you invite a strange in your house to spend the night, if it was cold???
Depends on what she looked like.
Reply:The sad thing is that it isn't safe to do that now. I would however...give the person something hot to drink or eat or both, and give them blankets.
Reply:No, that is too dangerous nowadays.
Reply:As much as I would love to be able to say yes unfortunately I have to answer no. I know too many people who have let someone they hardly know spend the night at their house cuz they had no where to go and the weather was awful. Unfortunately when morning rolled around the person was gone along with a lot of their stuff.
Reply:I don't think so. You dont know the person and you never know what they can do to you.
Reply:In a place where I've came across people faking a road accident and rob the passerby's car who stop to help, I won't even trust that stranger. the first thing that cross my mind is probably he's faking it to get into someone's home...
Reply:Odds are against it.
Reply:um.. no
Reply:prolly not, only if they were homeless or something =]
Reply:I really doubt it.
Reply:no but they could sleep in my shed. After I locked them in with a stern warning
Reply:No, especially because I have a child. It's not mean, it's just being safe. Would however drive them to the nearest shelter though. Noone should be out in the cold.
Reply:Probably not. Might call the pastor to see if they could sleep in the church.
Reply:Probably not...I wouldn't be able to sleep...
Reply:No, I would say, "Be gone, you filthy beast!" Actually that's what I had to say to my next-door neighbor last week after her husband walked out on her. Oh well.
Reply:probly, although not safe
Reply:if i had the heart to do it, shure why not
Reply:I would help them get to the Salvation Army because I wouldn't let a stranger in my home.It is sad that this day and age is so scary.
Reply:Sassy Gal 2
Update: What? She's a stranger and I'd invite her in a minute.
Would you invite a total stranger into your house? No. Then why would you vote for one?
Good question, but unlike total strangers your MP, or whoever it is you are voting for, should come to you and lay down the reasons why you should vote for them and the policies they represent, unless of course they're Labour party members in which case just stick your fingers in your ears and whistle a happy tune until they've finished speaking because at least then you'll know the time they've spent talking hasn't been a complete waste of time...
Would you invite a total stranger into your house? No. Then why would you vote for one?
I don't understand the relevance in your point.
You vote for someone based on their policies and (usually false) promises etc. All politicians are liars, and they're are all as bad as each other anyway. They just wear different coloured ties.
Reply:nice........and i dont????????
Reply:Good point,I never really considered that before,but you are right.
Reply:well i wouldn't vote for you, you're a total stranger. Hillary isn't a stranger to me, i've met her.
all of the candidates for the presidency are strangers to 75% people in the US, so why vote? Your logic doesn't make a lot of sense.
you get a star
Would you invite a total stranger into your house? No. Then why would you vote for one?
I don't understand the relevance in your point.
You vote for someone based on their policies and (usually false) promises etc. All politicians are liars, and they're are all as bad as each other anyway. They just wear different coloured ties.
Reply:nice........and i dont????????
Reply:Good point,I never really considered that before,but you are right.
Reply:well i wouldn't vote for you, you're a total stranger. Hillary isn't a stranger to me, i've met her.
all of the candidates for the presidency are strangers to 75% people in the US, so why vote? Your logic doesn't make a lot of sense.
you get a star
I wanna invite my friends by sending e-invitations?
try mypunchbowl or evite
I wanna invite my friends by sending e-invitations?
hi da
I wanna invite my friends by sending e-invitations?
hi da
Should the Iraqi shoe thrower be invited to the inauguration of President-elect Obama on January 20, 2009?
Who best to welcome the new President than this man? He could be the official representative of the Republic of Iraq. Should he be invited along as a sign of respect for Iraqi democracy?
Should the Iraqi shoe thrower be invited to the inauguration of President-elect Obama on January 20, 2009?
Sure, why not, he is in the short list for person of the year.
Reply:Like the US gov't actually respects anything about Iraq. If they did, the troops would be home by now.
Reply:He is probably already is invited sounds like a friend of Barry
Reply:I don't think he will have recovered from the torture that is being inflicted on him by then.
Reply:I'm going to say no.
Reply:no
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Should the Iraqi shoe thrower be invited to the inauguration of President-elect Obama on January 20, 2009?
Sure, why not, he is in the short list for person of the year.
Reply:Like the US gov't actually respects anything about Iraq. If they did, the troops would be home by now.
Reply:He is probably already is invited sounds like a friend of Barry
Reply:I don't think he will have recovered from the torture that is being inflicted on him by then.
Reply:I'm going to say no.
Reply:no
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Would u invite any of your online friends to your wedding?
No. Not unless I knew them personally. Like if they lived in the same town, you kind of knew the area they lived at, you work out at the same gym, or you have run into them several times. But if you don't know them at all then don't invite them. Its your special day and you should invite special people to experience it with you.
Would u invite any of your online friends to your wedding?
Yeah, why not?
Reply:a couple of them I would..
Reply:why not , everyone staying close by street, town and city, are special to come
Reply:no, what if some of your on-line friends are serial killers you'd be dead on your wedding day. Enjoy your day with those you know (for sure) are sane.
Reply:Only if you had known them pretty well over the internet. I think a lot of people who would get invited to the wedding wouldn't be as close to you as some of your online friends.
Reply:no that would not be a good idea you might thing you know someone but online is a very scary place you could be inviting the devil,good luck
Reply:Yeah... why not...take the computer with you so you can chat during the vows. Also, make sure the webcam is on so that the nuptials are visible on the net. You got real friends and family, or just the puter?
Reply:nope
Reply:never . i will not invite anyone
Reply:YES, I WILL INVITE MY FRIENDS IF I AM SO CLOSE %26amp; OPEN WITH THEM
Reply:i will wait what u will do to them at the time of ur wedding
Would u invite any of your online friends to your wedding?
Yeah, why not?
Reply:a couple of them I would..
Reply:why not , everyone staying close by street, town and city, are special to come
Reply:no, what if some of your on-line friends are serial killers you'd be dead on your wedding day. Enjoy your day with those you know (for sure) are sane.
Reply:Only if you had known them pretty well over the internet. I think a lot of people who would get invited to the wedding wouldn't be as close to you as some of your online friends.
Reply:no that would not be a good idea you might thing you know someone but online is a very scary place you could be inviting the devil,good luck
Reply:Yeah... why not...take the computer with you so you can chat during the vows. Also, make sure the webcam is on so that the nuptials are visible on the net. You got real friends and family, or just the puter?
Reply:nope
Reply:never . i will not invite anyone
Reply:YES, I WILL INVITE MY FRIENDS IF I AM SO CLOSE %26amp; OPEN WITH THEM
Reply:i will wait what u will do to them at the time of ur wedding
Should I invite my Mother to my wedding?
I did not know my Mom until I was 13. She never cared enough to stay around. My dad raised me and my sisters.
I have never been close with her and recently she has done things that have been very hurtful to my sisters an me.
I am really torn here beacuse if I dont invite her i will probably never see or hear from her again.
Should I invite my Mother to my wedding?
If you think her presence will not disrupt your ceremony or reception, consider sending an invitation. She probably won't come anyway.
If she is likely to say something hurtful or get in the way somehow, leave her out of it. Would it make the experience better for your dad if she wasn't there?
Reply:do it. Even if she wasn't there for you. It's okay for her to see you get married. Just do it
Reply:You will never change the way your mother is. You may never understand where she is coming from, or what the reasons are that made her that way. The fact that your father raised you to be a good person shows that you have overcome the lack of raising from your mother. I would invite her. If you have any close male friends or family members who have strong personalities, you may ask them that if your mother gets out of line at your wedding, if they would be kind enough to escort her out. Then it would be her loss and not yours. The fact that you state you may never see her again if you don't invite her shows that you want to have a relationship, so I would at least give it a shot. Weddings are to be happy and to be shared. Good luck with your mother, and best of luck with the new hubby!
Reply:I guess the question then becomes do you want to keep your mother in your life or not?
I say invite her.
Reply:Put it this way- if you don't invite her you will always wonder if you should have- if you do invite her you'll know.
Reply:Although she was not there for you, be the bigger person and invite her. Let it be her choice to come or not, but you did your part.
Reply:my husband and his mother don't get along. When we got married we invited her, just beacuse she is his mother. She never showed up, her excuse was she was sick, but the next day she was at her grandchild's birthday party. We thought this was funny, because my husband's step grand mother made it and she was going through chemo at the time, she stayed only for a few minutes but for her to make that effort made our day. I say be the bigger person, invite her, then let everyone see exactly how she is. You can always ask her to leave if she starts to upset your day.
Reply:Why not invite her? You only get one mom and no ones mom is perfect. I think it would be very rude of you not to invite her. I don't care what she did.
Reply:You need to get input from your dad and your sisters on this one.
Reply:You should probably invite her but you are the only one who knows for sure. Do what you know in your heart is best for you. If you do invite her, you do not have to include her or make her a part of the actual wedding. She can simply be a guest and nothing more.
Reply:My answer to your question is Yes!.. See if she acually shows up. Then kinda ignore her and show her what you did WITHOUT her help. Have your dad give you away. If you dont invite her then you will never live up to it.
Reply:i would invite her, someday she will realize wat she has
Reply:It's been a time but the best way to go is how you feel. there is no problem, if this could be the wedding you want. think it over in a quiet place.
Reply:Yes you should. Your lucky that your mom is still alive.
Reply:I think you are in a very hard place and maybe some didnt realize how hard this is for you. My own opinion is that you should invite your Mother. My reason is that you dont know what the future might bring there may come a day when Mom is the one there for you. You can change a bad situation into a positive beginning for your marriage because really you dont really know why she hasnt been there or if you do know then maybe her situation will change. She was there on the first most important day of your life let her be there for your second most important day too. Lots of luck to you and your family and congrats on your marriage.
Reply:Im sorry you have had these issues with your mother. Soemtimes in life we have to be the better person. If you think she will run your wedding, do not invite her. If you think she will act right then invite her. You also have to take in consideration yur dad's feelings. Go with your Gut!
Reply:I think you answered your own question because you are afraid that if you do not invite her you will never see her again so that shows that you care about her.
Reply:Unfortunately you probably will have to invite her if you still want her in your life and are not willing to let her go. If you plan to work things out some day, then being hurtful to her back, or because you are hurt is not the right reason to do that.
However, if you are pretty sure that you are finished with her in your life (and this includes if you and your husband have children %26lt;her grandchildren%26gt;), then you are not obligated.
Your wedding should not be used as a means of teaching her a lesson. BUT, it should be a day of new life and the best day of yor life.
Reply:Yes because shes the only reason your alive!
Reply:that is a very tough decision.
but i can't believe a mother would even leave their daughters.
and now hurting them.. that tells you how much she cares..
talk 2 your dad about it..
whatever you decide, good luck.
Reply:If she does hurtful things, why would you want her around in the first place.
I say, don't invite her and if she ever grows up, then you can talk. You don't need that negitive in your life, even if she did give birth to you. That doesn't give her any right to come back into your life and be mean.
Reply:Yes invite her to the wedding.
Reply:chat with your dad see what he says if she has hurt your sis then well i would be carefull but i feel dad will know best have a lovely day what ever the out come x
Reply:invite her
Reply:I dont think anyone can give you a cut and dry yes or no answer. Search your heard. Your wedding day should be filled with love and happiness. If you truly believe she would stand between you and your happiness, then do not invite her. However, because she is your mother, and if you're like me, you are already inviting others whom you do not know all that well, go ahead and let her share in your fun. I'm not saying sit her on the front row, but allow her a piece of cake and punch and maybe this will turn things around. Should you choose the latter, and are not comfortable, and feel she might over-step her boundaries, you might suggest to the best man, and your moh that they might have to polietly escort her out. You might even have an usher sit or stand near the back door during the ceremony if she hasnt arrived to keep her from interupting if she's truly stange, (or a good idea for any guest who's late, my husband's cousin actually thought they were going to let her take her seat through the same doors that the bridesmaids were walking through during the ceremony. uhhh)
Reply:That's completely up to you. It depends on what reason you're inviting her for.
Reply:Yes invite her. Keep your side right...... she might learn from you!
Reply:you should invite her, it will make you feel less guilty and it will keep the waters calm
Reply:You can invite her to the wedding and not to the reception if you choose. Were these hurtful things intentional? Your wedding should be a happy event. Don't have her there if she would spoil the day for you and your guests. She doesn't get a free pass just because she bore you.
Reply:I have a similar situation. I have a horrible, drug addicted mother. I haven't spoken to her in over a year. I used to live down the street from her, and in the 5 years that I lived there, she came by twice. Oh, and she has forgotten mine and my children's' birthdays repeatedly. I have decided that inviting my mother would be a mistake. She doesn't deserve to share my happy day. This is something you should decide on your own though. Every situation is different and it is your choice...no one else's. Do what you feel would be the best decision for yourself!
Reply:Invite her. Chances are that if she hasn't been around in the past she won't come to this. And if she does than you still get to have your mother there. I just wouldn't do the typical "mother" things. Corsage. Special seat. Maybe a picture or 2 tops. Nothing too put too much effort in making her think none of the things in the past happened. It is YOUR day and don't let her get in the way.
I have never been close with her and recently she has done things that have been very hurtful to my sisters an me.
I am really torn here beacuse if I dont invite her i will probably never see or hear from her again.
Should I invite my Mother to my wedding?
If you think her presence will not disrupt your ceremony or reception, consider sending an invitation. She probably won't come anyway.
If she is likely to say something hurtful or get in the way somehow, leave her out of it. Would it make the experience better for your dad if she wasn't there?
Reply:do it. Even if she wasn't there for you. It's okay for her to see you get married. Just do it
Reply:You will never change the way your mother is. You may never understand where she is coming from, or what the reasons are that made her that way. The fact that your father raised you to be a good person shows that you have overcome the lack of raising from your mother. I would invite her. If you have any close male friends or family members who have strong personalities, you may ask them that if your mother gets out of line at your wedding, if they would be kind enough to escort her out. Then it would be her loss and not yours. The fact that you state you may never see her again if you don't invite her shows that you want to have a relationship, so I would at least give it a shot. Weddings are to be happy and to be shared. Good luck with your mother, and best of luck with the new hubby!
Reply:I guess the question then becomes do you want to keep your mother in your life or not?
I say invite her.
Reply:Put it this way- if you don't invite her you will always wonder if you should have- if you do invite her you'll know.
Reply:Although she was not there for you, be the bigger person and invite her. Let it be her choice to come or not, but you did your part.
Reply:my husband and his mother don't get along. When we got married we invited her, just beacuse she is his mother. She never showed up, her excuse was she was sick, but the next day she was at her grandchild's birthday party. We thought this was funny, because my husband's step grand mother made it and she was going through chemo at the time, she stayed only for a few minutes but for her to make that effort made our day. I say be the bigger person, invite her, then let everyone see exactly how she is. You can always ask her to leave if she starts to upset your day.
Reply:Why not invite her? You only get one mom and no ones mom is perfect. I think it would be very rude of you not to invite her. I don't care what she did.
Reply:You need to get input from your dad and your sisters on this one.
Reply:You should probably invite her but you are the only one who knows for sure. Do what you know in your heart is best for you. If you do invite her, you do not have to include her or make her a part of the actual wedding. She can simply be a guest and nothing more.
Reply:My answer to your question is Yes!.. See if she acually shows up. Then kinda ignore her and show her what you did WITHOUT her help. Have your dad give you away. If you dont invite her then you will never live up to it.
Reply:i would invite her, someday she will realize wat she has
Reply:It's been a time but the best way to go is how you feel. there is no problem, if this could be the wedding you want. think it over in a quiet place.
Reply:Yes you should. Your lucky that your mom is still alive.
Reply:I think you are in a very hard place and maybe some didnt realize how hard this is for you. My own opinion is that you should invite your Mother. My reason is that you dont know what the future might bring there may come a day when Mom is the one there for you. You can change a bad situation into a positive beginning for your marriage because really you dont really know why she hasnt been there or if you do know then maybe her situation will change. She was there on the first most important day of your life let her be there for your second most important day too. Lots of luck to you and your family and congrats on your marriage.
Reply:Im sorry you have had these issues with your mother. Soemtimes in life we have to be the better person. If you think she will run your wedding, do not invite her. If you think she will act right then invite her. You also have to take in consideration yur dad's feelings. Go with your Gut!
Reply:I think you answered your own question because you are afraid that if you do not invite her you will never see her again so that shows that you care about her.
Reply:Unfortunately you probably will have to invite her if you still want her in your life and are not willing to let her go. If you plan to work things out some day, then being hurtful to her back, or because you are hurt is not the right reason to do that.
However, if you are pretty sure that you are finished with her in your life (and this includes if you and your husband have children %26lt;her grandchildren%26gt;), then you are not obligated.
Your wedding should not be used as a means of teaching her a lesson. BUT, it should be a day of new life and the best day of yor life.
Reply:Yes because shes the only reason your alive!
Reply:that is a very tough decision.
but i can't believe a mother would even leave their daughters.
and now hurting them.. that tells you how much she cares..
talk 2 your dad about it..
whatever you decide, good luck.
Reply:If she does hurtful things, why would you want her around in the first place.
I say, don't invite her and if she ever grows up, then you can talk. You don't need that negitive in your life, even if she did give birth to you. That doesn't give her any right to come back into your life and be mean.
Reply:Yes invite her to the wedding.
Reply:chat with your dad see what he says if she has hurt your sis then well i would be carefull but i feel dad will know best have a lovely day what ever the out come x
Reply:invite her
Reply:I dont think anyone can give you a cut and dry yes or no answer. Search your heard. Your wedding day should be filled with love and happiness. If you truly believe she would stand between you and your happiness, then do not invite her. However, because she is your mother, and if you're like me, you are already inviting others whom you do not know all that well, go ahead and let her share in your fun. I'm not saying sit her on the front row, but allow her a piece of cake and punch and maybe this will turn things around. Should you choose the latter, and are not comfortable, and feel she might over-step her boundaries, you might suggest to the best man, and your moh that they might have to polietly escort her out. You might even have an usher sit or stand near the back door during the ceremony if she hasnt arrived to keep her from interupting if she's truly stange, (or a good idea for any guest who's late, my husband's cousin actually thought they were going to let her take her seat through the same doors that the bridesmaids were walking through during the ceremony. uhhh)
Reply:That's completely up to you. It depends on what reason you're inviting her for.
Reply:Yes invite her. Keep your side right...... she might learn from you!
Reply:you should invite her, it will make you feel less guilty and it will keep the waters calm
Reply:You can invite her to the wedding and not to the reception if you choose. Were these hurtful things intentional? Your wedding should be a happy event. Don't have her there if she would spoil the day for you and your guests. She doesn't get a free pass just because she bore you.
Reply:I have a similar situation. I have a horrible, drug addicted mother. I haven't spoken to her in over a year. I used to live down the street from her, and in the 5 years that I lived there, she came by twice. Oh, and she has forgotten mine and my children's' birthdays repeatedly. I have decided that inviting my mother would be a mistake. She doesn't deserve to share my happy day. This is something you should decide on your own though. Every situation is different and it is your choice...no one else's. Do what you feel would be the best decision for yourself!
Reply:Invite her. Chances are that if she hasn't been around in the past she won't come to this. And if she does than you still get to have your mother there. I just wouldn't do the typical "mother" things. Corsage. Special seat. Maybe a picture or 2 tops. Nothing too put too much effort in making her think none of the things in the past happened. It is YOUR day and don't let her get in the way.
Should I invite my Mother to my wedding?
I did not know my Mom until I was 13. She never cared enough to stay around. My dad raised me and my sisters.
I have never been close with her and recently she has done things that have been very hurtful to my sisters an me.
I am really torn here beacuse if I dont invite her i will probably never see or hear from her again.
Should I invite my Mother to my wedding?
If you think her presence will not disrupt your ceremony or reception, consider sending an invitation. She probably won't come anyway.
If she is likely to say something hurtful or get in the way somehow, leave her out of it. Would it make the experience better for your dad if she wasn't there?
Reply:do it. Even if she wasn't there for you. It's okay for her to see you get married. Just do it
Reply:You will never change the way your mother is. You may never understand where she is coming from, or what the reasons are that made her that way. The fact that your father raised you to be a good person shows that you have overcome the lack of raising from your mother. I would invite her. If you have any close male friends or family members who have strong personalities, you may ask them that if your mother gets out of line at your wedding, if they would be kind enough to escort her out. Then it would be her loss and not yours. The fact that you state you may never see her again if you don't invite her shows that you want to have a relationship, so I would at least give it a shot. Weddings are to be happy and to be shared. Good luck with your mother, and best of luck with the new hubby!
Reply:I guess the question then becomes do you want to keep your mother in your life or not?
I say invite her.
Reply:Put it this way- if you don't invite her you will always wonder if you should have- if you do invite her you'll know.
Reply:Although she was not there for you, be the bigger person and invite her. Let it be her choice to come or not, but you did your part.
Reply:my husband and his mother don't get along. When we got married we invited her, just beacuse she is his mother. She never showed up, her excuse was she was sick, but the next day she was at her grandchild's birthday party. We thought this was funny, because my husband's step grand mother made it and she was going through chemo at the time, she stayed only for a few minutes but for her to make that effort made our day. I say be the bigger person, invite her, then let everyone see exactly how she is. You can always ask her to leave if she starts to upset your day.
Reply:Why not invite her? You only get one mom and no ones mom is perfect. I think it would be very rude of you not to invite her. I don't care what she did.
Reply:You need to get input from your dad and your sisters on this one.
Reply:You should probably invite her but you are the only one who knows for sure. Do what you know in your heart is best for you. If you do invite her, you do not have to include her or make her a part of the actual wedding. She can simply be a guest and nothing more.
Reply:My answer to your question is Yes!.. See if she acually shows up. Then kinda ignore her and show her what you did WITHOUT her help. Have your dad give you away. If you dont invite her then you will never live up to it.
Reply:i would invite her, someday she will realize wat she has
Reply:It's been a time but the best way to go is how you feel. there is no problem, if this could be the wedding you want. think it over in a quiet place.
Reply:Yes you should. Your lucky that your mom is still alive.
Reply:I think you are in a very hard place and maybe some didnt realize how hard this is for you. My own opinion is that you should invite your Mother. My reason is that you dont know what the future might bring there may come a day when Mom is the one there for you. You can change a bad situation into a positive beginning for your marriage because really you dont really know why she hasnt been there or if you do know then maybe her situation will change. She was there on the first most important day of your life let her be there for your second most important day too. Lots of luck to you and your family and congrats on your marriage.
Reply:Im sorry you have had these issues with your mother. Soemtimes in life we have to be the better person. If you think she will run your wedding, do not invite her. If you think she will act right then invite her. You also have to take in consideration yur dad's feelings. Go with your Gut!
Reply:I think you answered your own question because you are afraid that if you do not invite her you will never see her again so that shows that you care about her.
Reply:Unfortunately you probably will have to invite her if you still want her in your life and are not willing to let her go. If you plan to work things out some day, then being hurtful to her back, or because you are hurt is not the right reason to do that.
However, if you are pretty sure that you are finished with her in your life (and this includes if you and your husband have children %26lt;her grandchildren%26gt;), then you are not obligated.
Your wedding should not be used as a means of teaching her a lesson. BUT, it should be a day of new life and the best day of yor life.
Reply:Yes because shes the only reason your alive!
Reply:that is a very tough decision.
but i can't believe a mother would even leave their daughters.
and now hurting them.. that tells you how much she cares..
talk 2 your dad about it..
whatever you decide, good luck.
Reply:If she does hurtful things, why would you want her around in the first place.
I say, don't invite her and if she ever grows up, then you can talk. You don't need that negitive in your life, even if she did give birth to you. That doesn't give her any right to come back into your life and be mean.
Reply:Yes invite her to the wedding.
Reply:chat with your dad see what he says if she has hurt your sis then well i would be carefull but i feel dad will know best have a lovely day what ever the out come x
Reply:invite her
Reply:I dont think anyone can give you a cut and dry yes or no answer. Search your heard. Your wedding day should be filled with love and happiness. If you truly believe she would stand between you and your happiness, then do not invite her. However, because she is your mother, and if you're like me, you are already inviting others whom you do not know all that well, go ahead and let her share in your fun. I'm not saying sit her on the front row, but allow her a piece of cake and punch and maybe this will turn things around. Should you choose the latter, and are not comfortable, and feel she might over-step her boundaries, you might suggest to the best man, and your moh that they might have to polietly escort her out. You might even have an usher sit or stand near the back door during the ceremony if she hasnt arrived to keep her from interupting if she's truly stange, (or a good idea for any guest who's late, my husband's cousin actually thought they were going to let her take her seat through the same doors that the bridesmaids were walking through during the ceremony. uhhh)
Reply:That's completely up to you. It depends on what reason you're inviting her for.
Reply:Yes invite her. Keep your side right...... she might learn from you!
Reply:you should invite her, it will make you feel less guilty and it will keep the waters calm
Reply:You can invite her to the wedding and not to the reception if you choose. Were these hurtful things intentional? Your wedding should be a happy event. Don't have her there if she would spoil the day for you and your guests. She doesn't get a free pass just because she bore you.
Reply:I have a similar situation. I have a horrible, drug addicted mother. I haven't spoken to her in over a year. I used to live down the street from her, and in the 5 years that I lived there, she came by twice. Oh, and she has forgotten mine and my children's' birthdays repeatedly. I have decided that inviting my mother would be a mistake. She doesn't deserve to share my happy day. This is something you should decide on your own though. Every situation is different and it is your choice...no one else's. Do what you feel would be the best decision for yourself!
Reply:Invite her. Chances are that if she hasn't been around in the past she won't come to this. And if she does than you still get to have your mother there. I just wouldn't do the typical "mother" things. Corsage. Special seat. Maybe a picture or 2 tops. Nothing too put too much effort in making her think none of the things in the past happened. It is YOUR day and don't let her get in the way.
I have never been close with her and recently she has done things that have been very hurtful to my sisters an me.
I am really torn here beacuse if I dont invite her i will probably never see or hear from her again.
Should I invite my Mother to my wedding?
If you think her presence will not disrupt your ceremony or reception, consider sending an invitation. She probably won't come anyway.
If she is likely to say something hurtful or get in the way somehow, leave her out of it. Would it make the experience better for your dad if she wasn't there?
Reply:do it. Even if she wasn't there for you. It's okay for her to see you get married. Just do it
Reply:You will never change the way your mother is. You may never understand where she is coming from, or what the reasons are that made her that way. The fact that your father raised you to be a good person shows that you have overcome the lack of raising from your mother. I would invite her. If you have any close male friends or family members who have strong personalities, you may ask them that if your mother gets out of line at your wedding, if they would be kind enough to escort her out. Then it would be her loss and not yours. The fact that you state you may never see her again if you don't invite her shows that you want to have a relationship, so I would at least give it a shot. Weddings are to be happy and to be shared. Good luck with your mother, and best of luck with the new hubby!
Reply:I guess the question then becomes do you want to keep your mother in your life or not?
I say invite her.
Reply:Put it this way- if you don't invite her you will always wonder if you should have- if you do invite her you'll know.
Reply:Although she was not there for you, be the bigger person and invite her. Let it be her choice to come or not, but you did your part.
Reply:my husband and his mother don't get along. When we got married we invited her, just beacuse she is his mother. She never showed up, her excuse was she was sick, but the next day she was at her grandchild's birthday party. We thought this was funny, because my husband's step grand mother made it and she was going through chemo at the time, she stayed only for a few minutes but for her to make that effort made our day. I say be the bigger person, invite her, then let everyone see exactly how she is. You can always ask her to leave if she starts to upset your day.
Reply:Why not invite her? You only get one mom and no ones mom is perfect. I think it would be very rude of you not to invite her. I don't care what she did.
Reply:You need to get input from your dad and your sisters on this one.
Reply:You should probably invite her but you are the only one who knows for sure. Do what you know in your heart is best for you. If you do invite her, you do not have to include her or make her a part of the actual wedding. She can simply be a guest and nothing more.
Reply:My answer to your question is Yes!.. See if she acually shows up. Then kinda ignore her and show her what you did WITHOUT her help. Have your dad give you away. If you dont invite her then you will never live up to it.
Reply:i would invite her, someday she will realize wat she has
Reply:It's been a time but the best way to go is how you feel. there is no problem, if this could be the wedding you want. think it over in a quiet place.
Reply:Yes you should. Your lucky that your mom is still alive.
Reply:I think you are in a very hard place and maybe some didnt realize how hard this is for you. My own opinion is that you should invite your Mother. My reason is that you dont know what the future might bring there may come a day when Mom is the one there for you. You can change a bad situation into a positive beginning for your marriage because really you dont really know why she hasnt been there or if you do know then maybe her situation will change. She was there on the first most important day of your life let her be there for your second most important day too. Lots of luck to you and your family and congrats on your marriage.
Reply:Im sorry you have had these issues with your mother. Soemtimes in life we have to be the better person. If you think she will run your wedding, do not invite her. If you think she will act right then invite her. You also have to take in consideration yur dad's feelings. Go with your Gut!
Reply:I think you answered your own question because you are afraid that if you do not invite her you will never see her again so that shows that you care about her.
Reply:Unfortunately you probably will have to invite her if you still want her in your life and are not willing to let her go. If you plan to work things out some day, then being hurtful to her back, or because you are hurt is not the right reason to do that.
However, if you are pretty sure that you are finished with her in your life (and this includes if you and your husband have children %26lt;her grandchildren%26gt;), then you are not obligated.
Your wedding should not be used as a means of teaching her a lesson. BUT, it should be a day of new life and the best day of yor life.
Reply:Yes because shes the only reason your alive!
Reply:that is a very tough decision.
but i can't believe a mother would even leave their daughters.
and now hurting them.. that tells you how much she cares..
talk 2 your dad about it..
whatever you decide, good luck.
Reply:If she does hurtful things, why would you want her around in the first place.
I say, don't invite her and if she ever grows up, then you can talk. You don't need that negitive in your life, even if she did give birth to you. That doesn't give her any right to come back into your life and be mean.
Reply:Yes invite her to the wedding.
Reply:chat with your dad see what he says if she has hurt your sis then well i would be carefull but i feel dad will know best have a lovely day what ever the out come x
Reply:invite her
Reply:I dont think anyone can give you a cut and dry yes or no answer. Search your heard. Your wedding day should be filled with love and happiness. If you truly believe she would stand between you and your happiness, then do not invite her. However, because she is your mother, and if you're like me, you are already inviting others whom you do not know all that well, go ahead and let her share in your fun. I'm not saying sit her on the front row, but allow her a piece of cake and punch and maybe this will turn things around. Should you choose the latter, and are not comfortable, and feel she might over-step her boundaries, you might suggest to the best man, and your moh that they might have to polietly escort her out. You might even have an usher sit or stand near the back door during the ceremony if she hasnt arrived to keep her from interupting if she's truly stange, (or a good idea for any guest who's late, my husband's cousin actually thought they were going to let her take her seat through the same doors that the bridesmaids were walking through during the ceremony. uhhh)
Reply:That's completely up to you. It depends on what reason you're inviting her for.
Reply:Yes invite her. Keep your side right...... she might learn from you!
Reply:you should invite her, it will make you feel less guilty and it will keep the waters calm
Reply:You can invite her to the wedding and not to the reception if you choose. Were these hurtful things intentional? Your wedding should be a happy event. Don't have her there if she would spoil the day for you and your guests. She doesn't get a free pass just because she bore you.
Reply:I have a similar situation. I have a horrible, drug addicted mother. I haven't spoken to her in over a year. I used to live down the street from her, and in the 5 years that I lived there, she came by twice. Oh, and she has forgotten mine and my children's' birthdays repeatedly. I have decided that inviting my mother would be a mistake. She doesn't deserve to share my happy day. This is something you should decide on your own though. Every situation is different and it is your choice...no one else's. Do what you feel would be the best decision for yourself!
Reply:Invite her. Chances are that if she hasn't been around in the past she won't come to this. And if she does than you still get to have your mother there. I just wouldn't do the typical "mother" things. Corsage. Special seat. Maybe a picture or 2 tops. Nothing too put too much effort in making her think none of the things in the past happened. It is YOUR day and don't let her get in the way.
Is It Better To Call A Girl To Invite Her To A Movie Or To Leave Her A Message On Facebook?
A girl invited me to go see a movie with her but she hasn't brought it up since she asked 3 days ago. Should I call her or leave her a message on Facebook so that she can think about it? I'm kinda nervous about calling, and alos, I don't know if I'd be able to find a time to call because my mom isn't too cool with me calling girls and stuff . . . thanks!!!
Is It Better To Call A Girl To Invite Her To A Movie Or To Leave Her A Message On Facebook?
CALL HER!!!
Girls can get annoyed when you facebook them while in a relationship. Some of us enjoy actually hearing your voice. If you're not even dating yet, don't you dare try to cop out. You have to call her! If you're nervous, try thinking of what you want to say before you call, but don't make it too rehearesed. Remember, she's just as human as you are, and will forgive you if you aren't as coherent as you'd like to be.
Good luck!!!
Reply:If your Mom isn't cool with you calling girls, is she gonna be cool with you going out with one:)?
Mainly, don't think of it as such a huge deal. But don't be a wimp about it either. The fastest most efficient way for you to get your answer is to call, and that's how a guy should act, confident and efficient, not wimpy. That's not attractive. Just be real casual about it, like hey, it's So-and-So, how are you? Thought I'd take you up on you movie offer this Saturday? How about it?
What's the worst that can happen?
Reply:What century is your mom from? Why can't you call a girl? That is unless you are not old enough to date. I rather be called myself but if you are afraid of upsetting your mom send her a message and ask her if she'd still be interested in going to the movies, don't be vague, girls hate that. Give her a day a time and suggest some movies she may like to see.
Reply:Leave a message on Facebook??? Don't be a douche, call her and ask her. Or send a text that says "wanna ask you sumthin, call me when you get this" and that way if she calls back you know she's interested in going still and if she doesn't you don't have to risk making a fool of yourself. But don't leave a message on a website!!!
Reply:Call, call, call. Leaving a message on Facebook is so incredibly immature and lame; if you're too scared to ask me out, I don't think you'll be able to even hold a conversation with me, so I would turn you down. But if you take the initiative and call to ask, the chances of me saying yes are greater.
Reply:you could do it over facebook
but i don't think she'd apreciate it at all
i mean be kind of personal
it'd be really sweet if u called
c'mon don't ask her out over the internet
i thin she'll be really happy if call especially if she had invited u
and just do it when ur mom's like not there
i guess that sounds bad
but i don't thin u'd be like doing anything wrong
and omgg
that's so cute that ur nervous
aw
Reply:Call her, and tell her mom that you are and why you're calling a girl so she'll trust you. (This trust will help you in the future.)
Calling her will make you stand out more to her.
Plus, hearing her voice would probably brighten your day, and the same will go for her.
Reply:How young are you. Why does your mom not like you calling girls.
I think you should call her and talk to her. Every boy gets nervous asking a girl out. It is only natural. Except it seems you already know she wants to go. So you are half way there.
Reply:Well GIRLS like talking on the phone with guys! Don't just leave a message...that's just like another email or text...GIRLS want to talk to you not hear it from facebook! If you really like her you would have the nerve to call her!
Reply:Call her, as soon as you can. If you don't have enough nerve to call her at least leave her a message! If you ignore her any longer, she's going to think you are not interested.
Reply:If It was going to be a first date, and she checks her facebook alot, prolly the facebook option. That a way if you get turned down it will be easier and not as embarrassing.
Reply:Call her and say hey Its ______ just wanted to see if you wanted to go with me c ya act like yourself dont worry and dont be nervous :P its ok to be dont worry about it but calling is better than facebook atleast she will see you care.
Reply:if you're not able to call girls ... then message her on facebook. that way when you ask your mom if you can go to the movies you wont be in trouble and she'll be more likely to say yes...
i've gone through all that...so trust me
Reply:it's cuz she's waiting for you to follow through! just call her. it's much more fun to actually know the guy took the time to call at that moment cuz they were thinking of you instead of some email.
Reply:Seriously, Call her. Facebook and MySpace and email are LAME.
And then you all wonder why you can't figure each other out. cuz you don't COMMUNICATE.
Reply:if she hasn't bought it up, then surely she doesn't give a shiny slice of bread if you go or not, or she could just be hiding her emotions to avoid getting hurt.
I would facebook her. You remain in control.
Reply:Well I would say to call her girls always like to hear your voice and know that you really care about them! Even better ask her in person.
Reply:well either way i think would be fine..this time maybe send her a msg on facebook and go from there...dont always msg her on facebook after this time stick to calling if you guys hit it off.
Reply:always call. facebook, myspace, IM, email are way too impersonal.
Reply:If she's already asked you go ahead and facebook her.
Reply:Use your phone and nothing else.
Reply:call her. much more personal.
Reply:Its polite to call and talk to her personally .
Reply:Call makes it seem more personal
Reply:CALL!
Suck it up bro, and then she'll know your for real.
Plus its a totally OMG moment for her!!
Reply:Is there no romance left in the world??
Call her.
Reply:Call
Reply:Call her
Reply:call
Reply:call
Reply:give her a call (:
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Is It Better To Call A Girl To Invite Her To A Movie Or To Leave Her A Message On Facebook?
CALL HER!!!
Girls can get annoyed when you facebook them while in a relationship. Some of us enjoy actually hearing your voice. If you're not even dating yet, don't you dare try to cop out. You have to call her! If you're nervous, try thinking of what you want to say before you call, but don't make it too rehearesed. Remember, she's just as human as you are, and will forgive you if you aren't as coherent as you'd like to be.
Good luck!!!
Reply:If your Mom isn't cool with you calling girls, is she gonna be cool with you going out with one:)?
Mainly, don't think of it as such a huge deal. But don't be a wimp about it either. The fastest most efficient way for you to get your answer is to call, and that's how a guy should act, confident and efficient, not wimpy. That's not attractive. Just be real casual about it, like hey, it's So-and-So, how are you? Thought I'd take you up on you movie offer this Saturday? How about it?
What's the worst that can happen?
Reply:What century is your mom from? Why can't you call a girl? That is unless you are not old enough to date. I rather be called myself but if you are afraid of upsetting your mom send her a message and ask her if she'd still be interested in going to the movies, don't be vague, girls hate that. Give her a day a time and suggest some movies she may like to see.
Reply:Leave a message on Facebook??? Don't be a douche, call her and ask her. Or send a text that says "wanna ask you sumthin, call me when you get this" and that way if she calls back you know she's interested in going still and if she doesn't you don't have to risk making a fool of yourself. But don't leave a message on a website!!!
Reply:Call, call, call. Leaving a message on Facebook is so incredibly immature and lame; if you're too scared to ask me out, I don't think you'll be able to even hold a conversation with me, so I would turn you down. But if you take the initiative and call to ask, the chances of me saying yes are greater.
Reply:you could do it over facebook
but i don't think she'd apreciate it at all
i mean be kind of personal
it'd be really sweet if u called
c'mon don't ask her out over the internet
i thin she'll be really happy if call especially if she had invited u
and just do it when ur mom's like not there
i guess that sounds bad
but i don't thin u'd be like doing anything wrong
and omgg
that's so cute that ur nervous
aw
Reply:Call her, and tell her mom that you are and why you're calling a girl so she'll trust you. (This trust will help you in the future.)
Calling her will make you stand out more to her.
Plus, hearing her voice would probably brighten your day, and the same will go for her.
Reply:How young are you. Why does your mom not like you calling girls.
I think you should call her and talk to her. Every boy gets nervous asking a girl out. It is only natural. Except it seems you already know she wants to go. So you are half way there.
Reply:Well GIRLS like talking on the phone with guys! Don't just leave a message...that's just like another email or text...GIRLS want to talk to you not hear it from facebook! If you really like her you would have the nerve to call her!
Reply:Call her, as soon as you can. If you don't have enough nerve to call her at least leave her a message! If you ignore her any longer, she's going to think you are not interested.
Reply:If It was going to be a first date, and she checks her facebook alot, prolly the facebook option. That a way if you get turned down it will be easier and not as embarrassing.
Reply:Call her and say hey Its ______ just wanted to see if you wanted to go with me c ya act like yourself dont worry and dont be nervous :P its ok to be dont worry about it but calling is better than facebook atleast she will see you care.
Reply:if you're not able to call girls ... then message her on facebook. that way when you ask your mom if you can go to the movies you wont be in trouble and she'll be more likely to say yes...
i've gone through all that...so trust me
Reply:it's cuz she's waiting for you to follow through! just call her. it's much more fun to actually know the guy took the time to call at that moment cuz they were thinking of you instead of some email.
Reply:Seriously, Call her. Facebook and MySpace and email are LAME.
And then you all wonder why you can't figure each other out. cuz you don't COMMUNICATE.
Reply:if she hasn't bought it up, then surely she doesn't give a shiny slice of bread if you go or not, or she could just be hiding her emotions to avoid getting hurt.
I would facebook her. You remain in control.
Reply:Well I would say to call her girls always like to hear your voice and know that you really care about them! Even better ask her in person.
Reply:well either way i think would be fine..this time maybe send her a msg on facebook and go from there...dont always msg her on facebook after this time stick to calling if you guys hit it off.
Reply:always call. facebook, myspace, IM, email are way too impersonal.
Reply:If she's already asked you go ahead and facebook her.
Reply:Use your phone and nothing else.
Reply:call her. much more personal.
Reply:Its polite to call and talk to her personally .
Reply:Call makes it seem more personal
Reply:CALL!
Suck it up bro, and then she'll know your for real.
Plus its a totally OMG moment for her!!
Reply:Is there no romance left in the world??
Call her.
Reply:Call
Reply:Call her
Reply:call
Reply:call
Reply:give her a call (:
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My inlaws invite themselves over to stay all the time - advice!?
I mean, I love em, but what do you do when people just expect to stay at your house when they visit? there's another side of the family to stay with, but they say out place is more "comfortable". That's great and all, I don't mind occasionally, but it's not exactly fun all the time : )
My inlaws invite themselves over to stay all the time - advice!?
Hope one of these can help you out!
Start serving a lot of weird, exotic dishes.
Have a statue of Tom Cruise in the living room and say you went Scientology.
Buy a big, mean dog.
Run out of spare blankets.
Have a couple of bags packed, and whenever they show up, grab the bags and say you were just leaving for the weekend.
Learn to play the violin.
Rent the basement to a screamo band.
Mutter to yourself and twitch. A lot!
Forget all hygiene when they're over.
Reply:Let your husband know, for every time your in-laws come over that's two weeks with no sex. He's sure to fix the problem before you guys go to sleep tonight.
Reply:just have to arrange to b gone a few times..they should get the message. if not, maybe your hubby could gently speak with them. have they thought that maybe your house is more comfortable because you take the time to make it so and it is hard to do with guests around.
Reply:Tell your husband to sit down with his parents and tell them how both of your feel, concerning their visit.
Reply:Enjoy having them around. I would kill to be able to have my mother-in-law stay with us. My husband would love for my paretns to come over more often but they are too far away.
You do not know what you have until it is gone. I guess it depends on how your husband feels about it too. If he feels the same way than a sit-down talk about it might be in order. But if he enjoys having them around than I say suck it up.
This is just my opinion by the way. I miss my family terribly when they are away and would love for them to be able to come over all the time and stay with me
Family is the most important thing in the world.
Reply:I just saw the answer to this in the Ann Landers. It said something to the effect of offering to make reservations for them at a nice motel or hotel in as nice a way as you possibly can. Just tell them that they would be more comfortable there at the end of the day.
Reply:I hope they call you before they come! Next time, just say you're very busy that day/week - maybe work is very demanding - and ask if they wouldn't mind staying with the other relatives. If they say they would mind, say again, it just won't work for us that week (or month!). Be apologetic, sound like you're truly sorry you can't put them up, but it's just not possible this time. Maybe next time.
Reply:Un-invite them.
Reply:Oh my gawd, I'd shoot myself if my mother in law was staying over once a year let alone all the time! ugh! you're a saint. Basically, when they are there make the place "less comfortable" for them. Do the opposite of whatever they find makes your house their choice of squatting. Good luck!
Reply:ask them to call first. when they call, have a reason why this is not a good time.
Reply:When they are going to be in town, ask them where they are gong to stay? This will open up the question. If they say your house, let them know that it won't be convenient this time, maybe next time. Do this a few times and they will get the idea.
It is also okay to talk with them and let them know that they really need to ask about staying, it is okay most of the time, but it is a little presumptuous to just assume. They may get mad but they need to recognize you are an adult now.
Reply:Nothing is fun all the time.These people are your husbands parents and you need to respect that. How would you feel if it were your parents and your husband didn't want them staying? You should feel honored that they find your home so comfortable.That is a huge compliment to you and your husband.Your in laws will not be around forever.One day you will wish that they were able to come and visit.Take this time to build a stronger relationship with your in-laws.Enjoy the time you have to spend with them.When the day comes that they are no longer here,you will be glad that you did.
Reply:Move and don't give them your new address! J/K I would talk to your husband about this and make a plan to talk to your in-laws together.
Reply:Tell your husband that you don't like it and make him stand up to them. That's his job!
Reply:Close the shades, turn off all the lights and ignore the door bell.
Reply:1. Hide the cars in the garage and do not answer the door.
2. Get out of the house and stay busy with your bf/hubby. If you are not there at home, they cannot come over.
3.If all else fails, you will just have to politely tell them that you need quality time with your man. If it is his parents, it will need to come from him so they do not think it is only coming from you. He has to stand up to his own parents and siblings. (And vice versa)
-Good luck and God Bless.
Reply:Well you must set some rules.... let them know you two need time alone and it's not always good having someone else staying in the house.
Reply:Make it uncomfortable!
Walk around semi-nude, get one of those anoying pets like a neverendenig yelping mutt or something. Let some farts loose around them, or find out what they're allergic to and tell them you just became very attached to that particular allergen!
That, or just be honest and sit them down and have a civilized conversation. Let them know how you feel!
Reply:I would just be happy that they feel so comfortable with you. This means they view you as an immediate member of their family and as you get older family becomes more and more important. Someday you may need them in a crisis.
If they were coming every week it would be one thing but even at once a month for a couple of days I think it's manageable.
Reply:go out of the house more
Reply:tell your husband to talk to them and set some boundaries.
Reply:It's his family, so he has to take point.
You spell out to hubby what you're willing to live with, and then HE gets the joy of spelling that out to mom and dad.
Reply:You could make your husbands life a living hell and tell them that they can't come over anymore. I mean hey, that's what my brother does. And we only get to his neck of the woods once or twice a year. Just start a family war and tell them that they need to stay at a motel or something. Sounds like a great idea to me. By ALL the time you mean what?... Because when you say ALL the time I think of everyday, because everyday is ALL the time. Sensitive subject here for me. Sarcasm is always best. LOL
Reply:Let your hubby take care of that one
Reply:If you honey will not take care of it or they do not listen to him then it's time to confront them yourself. Telling them you need some warning so you can have extra stock in the fridge is needed for them to visit. You don't even need a reason, just need some amount of time. When they give you that warning then you can say "no" and you can just tell them a simple it's our "us" or "date night" time.
Keep in mind it is your house and no one should invade you in your house.
Reply:Well if they invite themselves and you have plans I would tell them they are welcome but you have plans on Sat night and won't be able to spend time with them. You can rent a movie for them or give them the local paper so they can have a choice on going out for the night or just kick back and relax. Since they are adults I don't think you need to hold there hand
for the entire weekend. I would think they would be OK with this since they look to stay over often.
Reply:Gosh... I truly feel bad for you! You may have to talk to your husband... just let him know that it's getting to be a bit much.
Either that or trade in your comfy couch for something a little less inviting ;)
Reply:Thats what in-laws are for....to bug you...but, lord love em its something you have to put up with....I have the same thing and although it is a hassle sometimes I love em and dont really mind.......good luck
My inlaws invite themselves over to stay all the time - advice!?
Hope one of these can help you out!
Start serving a lot of weird, exotic dishes.
Have a statue of Tom Cruise in the living room and say you went Scientology.
Buy a big, mean dog.
Run out of spare blankets.
Have a couple of bags packed, and whenever they show up, grab the bags and say you were just leaving for the weekend.
Learn to play the violin.
Rent the basement to a screamo band.
Mutter to yourself and twitch. A lot!
Forget all hygiene when they're over.
Reply:Let your husband know, for every time your in-laws come over that's two weeks with no sex. He's sure to fix the problem before you guys go to sleep tonight.
Reply:just have to arrange to b gone a few times..they should get the message. if not, maybe your hubby could gently speak with them. have they thought that maybe your house is more comfortable because you take the time to make it so and it is hard to do with guests around.
Reply:Tell your husband to sit down with his parents and tell them how both of your feel, concerning their visit.
Reply:Enjoy having them around. I would kill to be able to have my mother-in-law stay with us. My husband would love for my paretns to come over more often but they are too far away.
You do not know what you have until it is gone. I guess it depends on how your husband feels about it too. If he feels the same way than a sit-down talk about it might be in order. But if he enjoys having them around than I say suck it up.
This is just my opinion by the way. I miss my family terribly when they are away and would love for them to be able to come over all the time and stay with me
Family is the most important thing in the world.
Reply:I just saw the answer to this in the Ann Landers. It said something to the effect of offering to make reservations for them at a nice motel or hotel in as nice a way as you possibly can. Just tell them that they would be more comfortable there at the end of the day.
Reply:I hope they call you before they come! Next time, just say you're very busy that day/week - maybe work is very demanding - and ask if they wouldn't mind staying with the other relatives. If they say they would mind, say again, it just won't work for us that week (or month!). Be apologetic, sound like you're truly sorry you can't put them up, but it's just not possible this time. Maybe next time.
Reply:Un-invite them.
Reply:Oh my gawd, I'd shoot myself if my mother in law was staying over once a year let alone all the time! ugh! you're a saint. Basically, when they are there make the place "less comfortable" for them. Do the opposite of whatever they find makes your house their choice of squatting. Good luck!
Reply:ask them to call first. when they call, have a reason why this is not a good time.
Reply:When they are going to be in town, ask them where they are gong to stay? This will open up the question. If they say your house, let them know that it won't be convenient this time, maybe next time. Do this a few times and they will get the idea.
It is also okay to talk with them and let them know that they really need to ask about staying, it is okay most of the time, but it is a little presumptuous to just assume. They may get mad but they need to recognize you are an adult now.
Reply:Nothing is fun all the time.These people are your husbands parents and you need to respect that. How would you feel if it were your parents and your husband didn't want them staying? You should feel honored that they find your home so comfortable.That is a huge compliment to you and your husband.Your in laws will not be around forever.One day you will wish that they were able to come and visit.Take this time to build a stronger relationship with your in-laws.Enjoy the time you have to spend with them.When the day comes that they are no longer here,you will be glad that you did.
Reply:Move and don't give them your new address! J/K I would talk to your husband about this and make a plan to talk to your in-laws together.
Reply:Tell your husband that you don't like it and make him stand up to them. That's his job!
Reply:Close the shades, turn off all the lights and ignore the door bell.
Reply:1. Hide the cars in the garage and do not answer the door.
2. Get out of the house and stay busy with your bf/hubby. If you are not there at home, they cannot come over.
3.If all else fails, you will just have to politely tell them that you need quality time with your man. If it is his parents, it will need to come from him so they do not think it is only coming from you. He has to stand up to his own parents and siblings. (And vice versa)
-Good luck and God Bless.
Reply:Well you must set some rules.... let them know you two need time alone and it's not always good having someone else staying in the house.
Reply:Make it uncomfortable!
Walk around semi-nude, get one of those anoying pets like a neverendenig yelping mutt or something. Let some farts loose around them, or find out what they're allergic to and tell them you just became very attached to that particular allergen!
That, or just be honest and sit them down and have a civilized conversation. Let them know how you feel!
Reply:I would just be happy that they feel so comfortable with you. This means they view you as an immediate member of their family and as you get older family becomes more and more important. Someday you may need them in a crisis.
If they were coming every week it would be one thing but even at once a month for a couple of days I think it's manageable.
Reply:go out of the house more
Reply:tell your husband to talk to them and set some boundaries.
Reply:It's his family, so he has to take point.
You spell out to hubby what you're willing to live with, and then HE gets the joy of spelling that out to mom and dad.
Reply:You could make your husbands life a living hell and tell them that they can't come over anymore. I mean hey, that's what my brother does. And we only get to his neck of the woods once or twice a year. Just start a family war and tell them that they need to stay at a motel or something. Sounds like a great idea to me. By ALL the time you mean what?... Because when you say ALL the time I think of everyday, because everyday is ALL the time. Sensitive subject here for me. Sarcasm is always best. LOL
Reply:Let your hubby take care of that one
Reply:If you honey will not take care of it or they do not listen to him then it's time to confront them yourself. Telling them you need some warning so you can have extra stock in the fridge is needed for them to visit. You don't even need a reason, just need some amount of time. When they give you that warning then you can say "no" and you can just tell them a simple it's our "us" or "date night" time.
Keep in mind it is your house and no one should invade you in your house.
Reply:Well if they invite themselves and you have plans I would tell them they are welcome but you have plans on Sat night and won't be able to spend time with them. You can rent a movie for them or give them the local paper so they can have a choice on going out for the night or just kick back and relax. Since they are adults I don't think you need to hold there hand
for the entire weekend. I would think they would be OK with this since they look to stay over often.
Reply:Gosh... I truly feel bad for you! You may have to talk to your husband... just let him know that it's getting to be a bit much.
Either that or trade in your comfy couch for something a little less inviting ;)
Reply:Thats what in-laws are for....to bug you...but, lord love em its something you have to put up with....I have the same thing and although it is a hassle sometimes I love em and dont really mind.......good luck
Here to invite you all in the Egyptian Category for my Party...?
I just reached level four, so i say we throw a 7afle
I'll bring the dabke troupe
Somebody else needs to get the live entertainment but dont count on me doing it for you hehe :D
Let's all hook up with my homies in the Lebanon Category too and we will celebrate my great achievement???
*starts to zaghreet....for myself lol*
Here to invite you all in the Egyptian Category for my Party...?
hey beautiful
can i ?? oh plz can i ???? can i come as someone from the lebanon category and egyptian??? my egyptian name is ...... *sherin* ??? so what do yo say?? ill go to the change rooms and change every half an hour ???
***sherin speaking***
i heard that there is gana be a lebanese belly dancer named fatma at your other party?? well tell her shes going down im way better then her at dancing !! lol
Reply:thanks tuty. congrats..i will be there lol
Reply:I would love to learn dabke and eat Lebanese food, so don't forget me.
Reply:HUH.
I'll bring the pork hot dogs.
Reply:Thanks for the invitation! Did you say you need live entertainment? I'll bring my habiby so he can sing for us! Amr Diab is loved by Lebanese too anyway...Mabrook for reaching level 4!
Reply:lololollollololollololloloolyyyyyyyyyyyy *zaghrouta*
congratulations tuty.....i will sure come...can i bring sth?or somebody?
Reply:Way to go.
see you in the party... or what ever
Reply:Ooooh, how sweet. Thanks for the invite. Count me in. I'll bring ........hmmmm, let's see
I know, I'll just bring myself! Isn't that enough for you?!
Just kidding! I'm not bakheela! Whatever you need sweetie, you can count on me!
Reply:congratulation all of us feel happy about u and every one achieve any progress in his life, and go forward toty
Reply:i'm coming to dig the dance floor...congratulations...
I'll bring the dabke troupe
Somebody else needs to get the live entertainment but dont count on me doing it for you hehe :D
Let's all hook up with my homies in the Lebanon Category too and we will celebrate my great achievement???
*starts to zaghreet....for myself lol*
Here to invite you all in the Egyptian Category for my Party...?
hey beautiful
can i ?? oh plz can i ???? can i come as someone from the lebanon category and egyptian??? my egyptian name is ...... *sherin* ??? so what do yo say?? ill go to the change rooms and change every half an hour ???
***sherin speaking***
i heard that there is gana be a lebanese belly dancer named fatma at your other party?? well tell her shes going down im way better then her at dancing !! lol
Reply:thanks tuty. congrats..i will be there lol
Reply:I would love to learn dabke and eat Lebanese food, so don't forget me.
Reply:HUH.
I'll bring the pork hot dogs.
Reply:Thanks for the invitation! Did you say you need live entertainment? I'll bring my habiby so he can sing for us! Amr Diab is loved by Lebanese too anyway...Mabrook for reaching level 4!
Reply:lololollollololollololloloolyyyyyyyyyyyy *zaghrouta*
congratulations tuty.....i will sure come...can i bring sth?or somebody?
Reply:Way to go.
see you in the party... or what ever
Reply:Ooooh, how sweet. Thanks for the invite. Count me in. I'll bring ........hmmmm, let's see
I know, I'll just bring myself! Isn't that enough for you?!
Just kidding! I'm not bakheela! Whatever you need sweetie, you can count on me!
Reply:congratulation all of us feel happy about u and every one achieve any progress in his life, and go forward toty
Reply:i'm coming to dig the dance floor...congratulations...
Will you invite me to sunday lunch?
Your comments please?
Will you invite me to sunday lunch?
Yes, Swampy, Come on down! (Under)
Your welcome.
Reply:i would but its just dont expect people 2 just not no u and invite you somewhere sorry
Reply:First of all Swampy, your name worries me. Will you ruin my carpets?
Reply:Well yes, you're invited. How about a nice New York Strip
Steak with potato croquettes and Japanese Stir Fried Vegies and a nice Greek Salad. A bottle of Mondavi Shiraz would
go nice, don't you think? Please bring your lady. Or if you're a lady, please bring your man. Two PM sound good? We'll watch a movie on the big screen, your choice.
I Cr 13;8a
Reply:I hope you haven`t got breath like a donkey`s fart..!
Reply:yes you're invited and welcome....enough time to book your flight ..let me know the flight details,it's lovely weather here,maybe we can have it outside or take it to the beach,then a swim...pack your bathing suit...
Reply:Are you like that pikey Swampy or a different type of Swampy?
If your nice and clean and can behave yourself then I don't see why not, any special dietary requirement I should know about, it will probably be beef
Reply:no, dont have lunch
Reply:Will you do the dishes?
Reply:YES,HIGH FIVE
Reply:mmmm we are both at work on sunday so lunch is off how about a raincheck?
Reply:Yes if you cook it and serve it up on a yacht in the Caribbean sea. I'll provide the entertainment.
Peace
Reply:ok...i will be waiting for you to have a lunch {on} Paris Hilton on coming sunday at 1 pm sharp.....be there goon
Reply:not about this weekend, hope you find somewhere nice to go.
Reply:Of course, what do you fancy? Do you like to have a pudding, how about a nice semolina or tapioca pudding? Come on over and don't forget the wine!
dog names
Will you invite me to sunday lunch?
Yes, Swampy, Come on down! (Under)
Your welcome.
Reply:i would but its just dont expect people 2 just not no u and invite you somewhere sorry
Reply:First of all Swampy, your name worries me. Will you ruin my carpets?
Reply:Well yes, you're invited. How about a nice New York Strip
Steak with potato croquettes and Japanese Stir Fried Vegies and a nice Greek Salad. A bottle of Mondavi Shiraz would
go nice, don't you think? Please bring your lady. Or if you're a lady, please bring your man. Two PM sound good? We'll watch a movie on the big screen, your choice.
I Cr 13;8a
Reply:I hope you haven`t got breath like a donkey`s fart..!
Reply:yes you're invited and welcome....enough time to book your flight ..let me know the flight details,it's lovely weather here,maybe we can have it outside or take it to the beach,then a swim...pack your bathing suit...
Reply:Are you like that pikey Swampy or a different type of Swampy?
If your nice and clean and can behave yourself then I don't see why not, any special dietary requirement I should know about, it will probably be beef
Reply:no, dont have lunch
Reply:Will you do the dishes?
Reply:YES,HIGH FIVE
Reply:mmmm we are both at work on sunday so lunch is off how about a raincheck?
Reply:Yes if you cook it and serve it up on a yacht in the Caribbean sea. I'll provide the entertainment.
Peace
Reply:ok...i will be waiting for you to have a lunch {on} Paris Hilton on coming sunday at 1 pm sharp.....be there goon
Reply:not about this weekend, hope you find somewhere nice to go.
Reply:Of course, what do you fancy? Do you like to have a pudding, how about a nice semolina or tapioca pudding? Come on over and don't forget the wine!
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Who would be the 3 people you would invite to dinner? Anyone at all!?
It's amazing how many people run through your head! And they can even be from cartoons, anime, whatever!
Who would be the 3 people you would invite to dinner? Anyone at all!?
assuming ANYTHING'S possible at this dinner...
jimmy page, marilyn monroe, and johnny depp.
Reply:My Aunt Kathy-died in 2002
My Grandma-died in 2006
My Mom-my best friend.
now if you said non religious non living I would have to choose:
The Rat Pack
Lee Harvey Oswald
JFK
Fidel Castro - i think hes been dead for awhile now
DB Cooper
Marylin Monroe
David Berkowitz
Reply:Everyone always says Jesus, but I think he'd be a real "Debbie Downer" "Whaaa.. I died for your sins, blah blah blah" I'd be like turn this water into wine ****** and not just any wine.. I want Silver Oak!
Other than that I'd say Ghandi, Hitler, and Snoop Dog. That'd be fun.
Reply:My father, grandfather and hitler
Reply:My fiancee, Michelle Pfeiffer and Frasier Crane.
Who would be the 3 people you would invite to dinner? Anyone at all!?
assuming ANYTHING'S possible at this dinner...
jimmy page, marilyn monroe, and johnny depp.
Reply:My Aunt Kathy-died in 2002
My Grandma-died in 2006
My Mom-my best friend.
now if you said non religious non living I would have to choose:
The Rat Pack
Lee Harvey Oswald
JFK
Fidel Castro - i think hes been dead for awhile now
DB Cooper
Marylin Monroe
David Berkowitz
Reply:Everyone always says Jesus, but I think he'd be a real "Debbie Downer" "Whaaa.. I died for your sins, blah blah blah" I'd be like turn this water into wine ****** and not just any wine.. I want Silver Oak!
Other than that I'd say Ghandi, Hitler, and Snoop Dog. That'd be fun.
Reply:My father, grandfather and hitler
Reply:My fiancee, Michelle Pfeiffer and Frasier Crane.
Should I invite my girl friends to a pool party?
I don't know, they have that axe wound and it discharges through out the day, isn't that kinda nasty?
Should I invite my girl friends to a pool party?
you are an odd *ss person
Reply:If you want to invite them then yes.
Should I invite my girl friends to a pool party?
you are an odd *ss person
Reply:If you want to invite them then yes.
Is there a way I can invited myself to a party without seeming creepy/desperate?
I moved away to my college a year ago and since I'm pretty shy and live off campus I haven't created much of a social network for myself. I noticed on my friend's updates on facebook that someone I met once at a party over a year ago is turning 21 on wednesday. Is there a sly way to wish her a happy birthday and kind of invite myself to the festivities without sounding desperate or creepy?
Is there a way I can invited myself to a party without seeming creepy/desperate?
Bring a gift and see if they welcome you in or say,"thank you" and close the door. It might just work out great! You never know. If they close the door, try not to take it personally. At least you got to deliver the gift.
Reply:just talk to them and say 'happy birthday!!! i havnt seen you in so long! i wish i could see you at your party or something, haha. are you having a party? i bet itll be awesome!"
(say that on facebook or something)
Is there a way I can invited myself to a party without seeming creepy/desperate?
Bring a gift and see if they welcome you in or say,"thank you" and close the door. It might just work out great! You never know. If they close the door, try not to take it personally. At least you got to deliver the gift.
Reply:just talk to them and say 'happy birthday!!! i havnt seen you in so long! i wish i could see you at your party or something, haha. are you having a party? i bet itll be awesome!"
(say that on facebook or something)
Method to invite on yahoo messager?
hi,
I have import a contact list in my yahoo messenger , it is showing in address book but not in yahoo messenger . I wana invite these contacts for chat at a time not 1 by 1. can any body tell me the way to do this.......!
Method to invite on yahoo messager?
sorry, Even with other things, you may still need to do this one by one.
dog names
I have import a contact list in my yahoo messenger , it is showing in address book but not in yahoo messenger . I wana invite these contacts for chat at a time not 1 by 1. can any body tell me the way to do this.......!
Method to invite on yahoo messager?
sorry, Even with other things, you may still need to do this one by one.
dog names
Wording to invite to my sister marriage?
Because your love and friendship
has helped us become who we are,
we joyfully invite you to share in our
celebration of love and commitment.
Together we laugh, we dream, we love,
and on this day, we marry.
Wording to invite to my sister marriage?
Hi pals
You will be tolerated while my sis is getting the knot tied on her.
Of course, you can join the suckers to have a chat at the stall outside.
You creeps1
Yours loving
so and so
Reply:http://verseit.com/
Check out wordings at verseit.com.
Reply:what
has helped us become who we are,
we joyfully invite you to share in our
celebration of love and commitment.
Together we laugh, we dream, we love,
and on this day, we marry.
Wording to invite to my sister marriage?
Hi pals
You will be tolerated while my sis is getting the knot tied on her.
Of course, you can join the suckers to have a chat at the stall outside.
You creeps1
Yours loving
so and so
Reply:http://verseit.com/
Check out wordings at verseit.com.
Reply:what
Should I invite any other girl to have sex with me and my boyfriend. (3som)?
I dont know. Me and my boyfriend talked about it but I would rather have another dude. What should I do?
Should I invite any other girl to have sex with me and my boyfriend. (3som)?
go for it ................ ll
Reply:talk to him about it tell him.
try both wayss?
idkk. good luckk
Reply:invite the friend....3som's should only consist of 2 females and 1 guy not 2 guys and 1 female!!!!
Reply:A big no no!!! You will always think in the back of your head thoughts of the both of them together. Plus your relationship will never be the same. Now, if you were never planning on a lenghty relationship with this person in the first palce, then I say go for it.
Reply:hi !
its me the sista dress up guy,in the chat room.
Reply:ew.....3 somes are nasty....
Reply:Bear in mind that him wanting the third person to be another girl is just his way of saying "i'm getting bored with having sex with just you, honey!" His interest lies in getting to have sex with another girl, not with trying something new that will turn you on, too. He figures if you're there, and you've okayed it, then it's not cheating. Tell him you want the third person to be a guy, and see how fast he changes his tune on wanting a threesome!
Reply:3soms is the devil!
Reply:if you are secure in your relationship and your sexualability to please your boyfriend fine but if not then dont cause he may like what the other girl can do better and u may get jealous. Not to mention a disease if she isnt clean.
Reply:........it doesn't matter, the relationship bound for failure now anyway.
Reply:No! No! No! You will regret it.
Reply:Hello,
I'm assuming you are a young person. I only tell you this because I care about the young of this world. You asked the question that you did. I don't know if you and your boyfriend have considered it, but have you ever considered what God thinks about your sexual activity before marriage? I'm only say this in love. Perhaps I do not know you, but love you enough to tell you the truth. God, the person who made you doesn't want you to have sex before marriage. He wanted you to wait and to save yourself for that special one that God wanted for you. The Lord said himself this about what HE thinks about sex before marriage: "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4
He said the "marriage bed" was undefiled before Him. God ordained marriage, but he doesn't approve of having sex outside of marriage or multiple couple unions in sexual relations even when you are married, much less outside of the union of marriage. You can say I'm old fashioned and don't know what I'm talking about, but I'm only telling you the truth. You may think that there are not any virgins in this world that save themselves and love themselves enough to not give up that special thing God gave to them, their virginity. There is another verse I want to give you about the things in which God doesn't condone so that you can see that it's not coming from me, but from what God says and what God thinks. It's called the works of the flesh and there are things God lists in these that he doen't condone:
19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,
21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God." Galatians 5:19-21
Fornication falls under what you have described. You asked the question: what should I do? You should stop having sex with your boyfriend and repent to God for what you have done wrong and ask Jesus into your heart so that HE can HELP YOU to live right. That boyfriend of yours, if he pressured you into sex or if you no longer wanted to have sex and he disagreed with that decision - then he isn't worth it. He doesn't really even love you because RESPECT is a precursor for true, real LOVE. If he loved and respected your body the way God does, he wouldn't want you to have sex with him and would wait until you are married. I am old enough to know that men that want sex before marriage don't have love for you. What this is is just lust. There is a difference between real love and just dirty lust. All that is in this life that young and old people alike are concerned about can be taken to the ultimate authority - The Holy Book, the Bible -all the answers from God. Oh, it may be unpopular among your friends, but what counts is what GOD thinks and what GOD'S opinion on ANY subject is. If you know that God doesn't want you sleeping around and having sex outside marriage, then wouldn't you want to please him in that? I feel for you. You may get angry and hate me for it, but I'm telling you this because I care about you, yes, even if I don't know you...want to know why? Because the God in my life cares for you far more than anyone else can. There's nothing like waiting for that true Godly mate in marriage that God has for you. I know many Godly married couples that waited until they were married and they have never regreted it! God can bless a marriage in ways you cannot imagine. Who do you think invented sex - GOD DID. God made sex for a married couple, not for people to just have sex with some partner or partners - that's lust and I can tell you of a truth that the devil is a BIG part of all that is going on there, whether you choose to believe it or not. The devil loves for a person to degrade themselves, especially in the sexual arena. He wants people to have sex outside marriage. God does not - He wants you to keep yourself pure and clean before HIM. I didn't have God in my life until I had messed up my life and I allowed things to happen to me that were wrong and I can say I've always regretted not waiting. I didn't have direction in my life, had an alcoholic father and an abusive home and was out on my own without anyone to care for me. I had a boyfriend, too, and looking back on it - He didn't believe in God, didn't go to church, and he was the one that seduced me into all that went on, BUT, we are all free moral agents and God gives people free choice, but one day we won't have free choice anymore at the end of this life. What we do in this life will depend upon where we spend eternity in the next; heaven or hell. If someone would have talked to me back then before I made all those mistakes, I would have listened. I didn't have any love and if I had a big sister or a mentor that had God in their life to tell me like I'm telling ti to you straight, I would have saved myself before marriage. God thinks highly of a virgin - for she or he is pure and clean before him. God, though, in all his love and mercy can forgive and it would be like it never happend. "If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature, old things have passed away, behold, all things are become new." The blood of Christ cleanses any sinner from all that they've ever done wrong and his spirit comes into them to dwell - helping that person - to live holy before him. I am a single lady and have had Christ in my heart of about 11 years. I have never had sex since the day I came to God, nor will I ever, until he brings the special person he's chosen for me to marry. I am proof that a person can live a holy life. Take this for what it is worth - which I believe - is priceless information for you, personally. I told it to you straight. I know what I'm talking about. If you don't accept what I've said, I pray, one day soon, that the Lord will help you see that I am right and I have given you not my truth, but the TRUTH that came straight from God.
Blessings,
With Love,
blessed2serve
Reply:Do you want AIDS?
Reply:noooooooooooo....why u gonna share ur man for??? thats nasty and if u n ur man break up hes gonna spread rumors around sayin all the nasty things u did. have respect for yourself. NOOOO...eww
Reply:another girl..... for u its a 3some but for him its a gay experiance.
Reply:Hm, you know these are the types of bf %26amp; gf type relationships that have arrangements I think. I know this couple, I don't know, I think the bloke is the one that's driving whatever happens here. It sounds like they occasionally have 3somes because he does whatever with other females when he supposedly is seeing this one other girl. This kind of open relationship is being practised more often than we think. If you want to do this in your current relationship, go for it. Hope you enjoy it.
Reply:Well if you and your boyfriend are at that point to where you wont get jelous then maybe you should go to a swingers club you can pick out a couple and go from there. I honestly dont think you want a dude in your threesome because your boyfriend will feel left out cause he doesnt swing that way so the whole swinger idea is more like he gets his and your get yours equal share!
Reply:sure. invite me! ;)
Reply:another dude. do u honestly want ur bf having sex wit another girl?
Reply:How about invite a couple? That way you both get to have fun, adn he can't throw it inyour face..
Reply:So you're trying to get pregnant but you want to have sex with someone else.
Sounds like you really have you scene together!
Good luck with all that!
Reply:Do you want to? If yes, then do it. If not, definitely don't. You will never forget the decision you make.
Should I invite any other girl to have sex with me and my boyfriend. (3som)?
go for it ................ ll
Reply:talk to him about it tell him.
try both wayss?
idkk. good luckk
Reply:invite the friend....3som's should only consist of 2 females and 1 guy not 2 guys and 1 female!!!!
Reply:A big no no!!! You will always think in the back of your head thoughts of the both of them together. Plus your relationship will never be the same. Now, if you were never planning on a lenghty relationship with this person in the first palce, then I say go for it.
Reply:hi !
its me the sista dress up guy,in the chat room.
Reply:ew.....3 somes are nasty....
Reply:Bear in mind that him wanting the third person to be another girl is just his way of saying "i'm getting bored with having sex with just you, honey!" His interest lies in getting to have sex with another girl, not with trying something new that will turn you on, too. He figures if you're there, and you've okayed it, then it's not cheating. Tell him you want the third person to be a guy, and see how fast he changes his tune on wanting a threesome!
Reply:3soms is the devil!
Reply:if you are secure in your relationship and your sexualability to please your boyfriend fine but if not then dont cause he may like what the other girl can do better and u may get jealous. Not to mention a disease if she isnt clean.
Reply:........it doesn't matter, the relationship bound for failure now anyway.
Reply:No! No! No! You will regret it.
Reply:Hello,
I'm assuming you are a young person. I only tell you this because I care about the young of this world. You asked the question that you did. I don't know if you and your boyfriend have considered it, but have you ever considered what God thinks about your sexual activity before marriage? I'm only say this in love. Perhaps I do not know you, but love you enough to tell you the truth. God, the person who made you doesn't want you to have sex before marriage. He wanted you to wait and to save yourself for that special one that God wanted for you. The Lord said himself this about what HE thinks about sex before marriage: "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4
He said the "marriage bed" was undefiled before Him. God ordained marriage, but he doesn't approve of having sex outside of marriage or multiple couple unions in sexual relations even when you are married, much less outside of the union of marriage. You can say I'm old fashioned and don't know what I'm talking about, but I'm only telling you the truth. You may think that there are not any virgins in this world that save themselves and love themselves enough to not give up that special thing God gave to them, their virginity. There is another verse I want to give you about the things in which God doesn't condone so that you can see that it's not coming from me, but from what God says and what God thinks. It's called the works of the flesh and there are things God lists in these that he doen't condone:
19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,
21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God." Galatians 5:19-21
Fornication falls under what you have described. You asked the question: what should I do? You should stop having sex with your boyfriend and repent to God for what you have done wrong and ask Jesus into your heart so that HE can HELP YOU to live right. That boyfriend of yours, if he pressured you into sex or if you no longer wanted to have sex and he disagreed with that decision - then he isn't worth it. He doesn't really even love you because RESPECT is a precursor for true, real LOVE. If he loved and respected your body the way God does, he wouldn't want you to have sex with him and would wait until you are married. I am old enough to know that men that want sex before marriage don't have love for you. What this is is just lust. There is a difference between real love and just dirty lust. All that is in this life that young and old people alike are concerned about can be taken to the ultimate authority - The Holy Book, the Bible -all the answers from God. Oh, it may be unpopular among your friends, but what counts is what GOD thinks and what GOD'S opinion on ANY subject is. If you know that God doesn't want you sleeping around and having sex outside marriage, then wouldn't you want to please him in that? I feel for you. You may get angry and hate me for it, but I'm telling you this because I care about you, yes, even if I don't know you...want to know why? Because the God in my life cares for you far more than anyone else can. There's nothing like waiting for that true Godly mate in marriage that God has for you. I know many Godly married couples that waited until they were married and they have never regreted it! God can bless a marriage in ways you cannot imagine. Who do you think invented sex - GOD DID. God made sex for a married couple, not for people to just have sex with some partner or partners - that's lust and I can tell you of a truth that the devil is a BIG part of all that is going on there, whether you choose to believe it or not. The devil loves for a person to degrade themselves, especially in the sexual arena. He wants people to have sex outside marriage. God does not - He wants you to keep yourself pure and clean before HIM. I didn't have God in my life until I had messed up my life and I allowed things to happen to me that were wrong and I can say I've always regretted not waiting. I didn't have direction in my life, had an alcoholic father and an abusive home and was out on my own without anyone to care for me. I had a boyfriend, too, and looking back on it - He didn't believe in God, didn't go to church, and he was the one that seduced me into all that went on, BUT, we are all free moral agents and God gives people free choice, but one day we won't have free choice anymore at the end of this life. What we do in this life will depend upon where we spend eternity in the next; heaven or hell. If someone would have talked to me back then before I made all those mistakes, I would have listened. I didn't have any love and if I had a big sister or a mentor that had God in their life to tell me like I'm telling ti to you straight, I would have saved myself before marriage. God thinks highly of a virgin - for she or he is pure and clean before him. God, though, in all his love and mercy can forgive and it would be like it never happend. "If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature, old things have passed away, behold, all things are become new." The blood of Christ cleanses any sinner from all that they've ever done wrong and his spirit comes into them to dwell - helping that person - to live holy before him. I am a single lady and have had Christ in my heart of about 11 years. I have never had sex since the day I came to God, nor will I ever, until he brings the special person he's chosen for me to marry. I am proof that a person can live a holy life. Take this for what it is worth - which I believe - is priceless information for you, personally. I told it to you straight. I know what I'm talking about. If you don't accept what I've said, I pray, one day soon, that the Lord will help you see that I am right and I have given you not my truth, but the TRUTH that came straight from God.
Blessings,
With Love,
blessed2serve
Reply:Do you want AIDS?
Reply:noooooooooooo....why u gonna share ur man for??? thats nasty and if u n ur man break up hes gonna spread rumors around sayin all the nasty things u did. have respect for yourself. NOOOO...eww
Reply:another girl..... for u its a 3some but for him its a gay experiance.
Reply:Hm, you know these are the types of bf %26amp; gf type relationships that have arrangements I think. I know this couple, I don't know, I think the bloke is the one that's driving whatever happens here. It sounds like they occasionally have 3somes because he does whatever with other females when he supposedly is seeing this one other girl. This kind of open relationship is being practised more often than we think. If you want to do this in your current relationship, go for it. Hope you enjoy it.
Reply:Well if you and your boyfriend are at that point to where you wont get jelous then maybe you should go to a swingers club you can pick out a couple and go from there. I honestly dont think you want a dude in your threesome because your boyfriend will feel left out cause he doesnt swing that way so the whole swinger idea is more like he gets his and your get yours equal share!
Reply:sure. invite me! ;)
Reply:another dude. do u honestly want ur bf having sex wit another girl?
Reply:How about invite a couple? That way you both get to have fun, adn he can't throw it inyour face..
Reply:So you're trying to get pregnant but you want to have sex with someone else.
Sounds like you really have you scene together!
Good luck with all that!
Reply:Do you want to? If yes, then do it. If not, definitely don't. You will never forget the decision you make.
Trying to invite people, but it won't work!?
I'm trying to invite my friend to my yahoo group, (she has yahoo) but it never gets to her! Am I screwing up somewhere?
Trying to invite people, but it won't work!?
Why not add him / her directly to your group?
How can I directly add (not invite) members to my group?
http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/groups/...
Reply:invites are glitchy and they have been for months, someget them, many never do
if you have a closed group, you're limited to sending invites and adding is a bad idea since they wont end up with access to web features of the group.
if your group is not closed membership, send them the direct link from your group and they can join per the great big blue tab Join This Groups
good luck
Trying to invite people, but it won't work!?
Why not add him / her directly to your group?
How can I directly add (not invite) members to my group?
http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/groups/...
Reply:invites are glitchy and they have been for months, someget them, many never do
if you have a closed group, you're limited to sending invites and adding is a bad idea since they wont end up with access to web features of the group.
if your group is not closed membership, send them the direct link from your group and they can join per the great big blue tab Join This Groups
good luck
When you invite a friend to hang out?
but that friend keeps coming up with excuses or is busy to accept your invitation, does it mean that that person doesn't enjoy your company?
When you invite a friend to hang out?
usually in that case i would say they might feel they don't have anything in common with you. they actually may not enjoy your company, not because anything is wrong with you though. there just might be a conflict of interests.
Reply:maybe they might not.
but they might be like me,
i don't really like going to other peoples houses;
it doesn't bother me going to their houses,
i just prefer being at my own home.
family name
When you invite a friend to hang out?
usually in that case i would say they might feel they don't have anything in common with you. they actually may not enjoy your company, not because anything is wrong with you though. there just might be a conflict of interests.
Reply:maybe they might not.
but they might be like me,
i don't really like going to other peoples houses;
it doesn't bother me going to their houses,
i just prefer being at my own home.
family name
Have you ever seen this on a wedding invite ?
My sister is getting married, and on the invitation it says
Please enclose a cheque for £22.50 to cover the price of your meal if you want to join us for dinner....Have you ever paid at someones wedding ?
It's going to look horrible when half the guests are standing watching people eat ? Thoughts?
Have you ever seen this on a wedding invite ?
Well thats a first hearing u gotta pay for your own meal...might aswell hit the nearest mcdonalds, kfc or burger king in the area...***, just pack a picnic..u could feed the hungry and be the saviour of the day ;o) LOL
Reply:Wow, I can understand that they must be on a tight budget but you can't ask people to pay for their meal if you've invited them to your wedding! I know quite a few people that have said "in lieu of a gift we would love our guests to make a contribution to our wishing well" You just set up a "well" (it can just be a box covered in pretty paper) and people put the cash they would have spent on a pressie in an envelope and drop it in the box. That's perfectly acceptable. If she's already sent out the invites then there's not much you can do...very bad manners though.
Reply:That's got to be a real first! My cousin asked people if they would like to put in for the honeymoon instead of presents (kind of assumes you will get presents but we all knew she only meant that we were to donate only if we wanted to). It was just practical.
I think it's okay (embarrassing to admit need to ask but still okay) to ask close family/ friends to help out with drinks but yikes! does your sister mean to send this to second cousins and people from work etc.,?
Why doesn't your sister just have a smaller wedding?
Reply:That is the "TACKIEST" thing I have ever heard of. The reception is supposed to be "PAID FOR". Talk about "NO CLASS"... I wouldn't even show up to the wedding... I would make "THEM PAY" for their wedding gift as well. Never heard of such a thing..."CHEAP"
Reply:I've heard of it but never seen it. My fiances cheap friend and his equally cheap wife put "Bring Gifts" on the bottom of their invitations. I think its so tacky. If I would have to pay, I just wouldnt go. But if it was my sister, Id have to go. Just eat before you go.
Reply:wow.. I personally I never heard of this before.
it sounds kind of odd to me.
but it may be a tradition that I have never heard of.?
But of all the weddings that I have been to i've never heard of this one.
Reply:What a great Idea....stop all them scrounging gits that you never see from one year to the next and only come for the free food and beer ...whilst your true family and friends will show ...........a nice end would be to ensure there is a card at each table with the money returned
Reply:That is really really awful.. I feel sorry for you.
The best thing to do would be to ask 10 people that can cook to bring a plate of some kind and do it buffet style.. That would be way less TACKY.
Reply:omg, don't have a wedding then. if you cant afford to treat your guests properly go to city hall or elope. that is so classless. i would never go.
Reply:TACKY TACKY TACKY!!!!!
Reply:I have never seen that and it is actually considered improper etiquette. They should not be asking for money to cover their guests dinners. I wouldn't be surprised if they got less guests than they expected
Reply:Yeah, I've had to pay at a wedding before.
It's like what? You invited me, now you want me to pay!?
Reply:No, I have been to more than 5 weddings - to say I'm only 18. And never have I come across that! Either pay, or just pop somewhere else while they eat.
Reply:You're supposed to feed your guests. That would look soo bad on an invitation.......that's really on there???? Wow
Reply:No I have never seen anything like that... WOW!!!!!
Reply:Hmm...I'm not sure how etiquette has changed through the years, but to me that is just plain tacky.
Reply:Thats weird. Never seen it.
Reply:Tell her to fcuk off, tight cow.
Reply:OMG.....never seen that.......what about if nobody comes......what kind of wedding would b????
Please enclose a cheque for £22.50 to cover the price of your meal if you want to join us for dinner....Have you ever paid at someones wedding ?
It's going to look horrible when half the guests are standing watching people eat ? Thoughts?
Have you ever seen this on a wedding invite ?
Well thats a first hearing u gotta pay for your own meal...might aswell hit the nearest mcdonalds, kfc or burger king in the area...***, just pack a picnic..u could feed the hungry and be the saviour of the day ;o) LOL
Reply:Wow, I can understand that they must be on a tight budget but you can't ask people to pay for their meal if you've invited them to your wedding! I know quite a few people that have said "in lieu of a gift we would love our guests to make a contribution to our wishing well" You just set up a "well" (it can just be a box covered in pretty paper) and people put the cash they would have spent on a pressie in an envelope and drop it in the box. That's perfectly acceptable. If she's already sent out the invites then there's not much you can do...very bad manners though.
Reply:That's got to be a real first! My cousin asked people if they would like to put in for the honeymoon instead of presents (kind of assumes you will get presents but we all knew she only meant that we were to donate only if we wanted to). It was just practical.
I think it's okay (embarrassing to admit need to ask but still okay) to ask close family/ friends to help out with drinks but yikes! does your sister mean to send this to second cousins and people from work etc.,?
Why doesn't your sister just have a smaller wedding?
Reply:That is the "TACKIEST" thing I have ever heard of. The reception is supposed to be "PAID FOR". Talk about "NO CLASS"... I wouldn't even show up to the wedding... I would make "THEM PAY" for their wedding gift as well. Never heard of such a thing..."CHEAP"
Reply:I've heard of it but never seen it. My fiances cheap friend and his equally cheap wife put "Bring Gifts" on the bottom of their invitations. I think its so tacky. If I would have to pay, I just wouldnt go. But if it was my sister, Id have to go. Just eat before you go.
Reply:wow.. I personally I never heard of this before.
it sounds kind of odd to me.
but it may be a tradition that I have never heard of.?
But of all the weddings that I have been to i've never heard of this one.
Reply:What a great Idea....stop all them scrounging gits that you never see from one year to the next and only come for the free food and beer ...whilst your true family and friends will show ...........a nice end would be to ensure there is a card at each table with the money returned
Reply:That is really really awful.. I feel sorry for you.
The best thing to do would be to ask 10 people that can cook to bring a plate of some kind and do it buffet style.. That would be way less TACKY.
Reply:omg, don't have a wedding then. if you cant afford to treat your guests properly go to city hall or elope. that is so classless. i would never go.
Reply:TACKY TACKY TACKY!!!!!
Reply:I have never seen that and it is actually considered improper etiquette. They should not be asking for money to cover their guests dinners. I wouldn't be surprised if they got less guests than they expected
Reply:Yeah, I've had to pay at a wedding before.
It's like what? You invited me, now you want me to pay!?
Reply:No, I have been to more than 5 weddings - to say I'm only 18. And never have I come across that! Either pay, or just pop somewhere else while they eat.
Reply:You're supposed to feed your guests. That would look soo bad on an invitation.......that's really on there???? Wow
Reply:No I have never seen anything like that... WOW!!!!!
Reply:Hmm...I'm not sure how etiquette has changed through the years, but to me that is just plain tacky.
Reply:Thats weird. Never seen it.
Reply:Tell her to fcuk off, tight cow.
Reply:OMG.....never seen that.......what about if nobody comes......what kind of wedding would b????
Could someone invite me to Demonoid.com?
Trying to find a rare soundtrack and have only found it there. Anybody?
Could someone invite me to Demonoid.com?
i have the same problem too..can someone give us the invitation code please?
Reply:Just check http://demonoid.com EVERY day for the open registration days.
Please try to keep your share ratio around 1.1 when you get in.
Or email me with what you're after and I'll see what I can do.
Reply: Why don,t you type in your search box Demonoid .com then you shoul;d be in .
Reply:http://www.invitestodemonoid.com
Reply:hey i too have the same problem man...........shittttttttt man
Could someone invite me to Demonoid.com?
i have the same problem too..can someone give us the invitation code please?
Reply:Just check http://demonoid.com EVERY day for the open registration days.
Please try to keep your share ratio around 1.1 when you get in.
Or email me with what you're after and I'll see what I can do.
Reply: Why don,t you type in your search box Demonoid .com then you shoul;d be in .
Reply:http://www.invitestodemonoid.com
Reply:hey i too have the same problem man...........shittttttttt man
Should i invite my new bf to lunch, the friends i sit with dont really like him....?
one of them went out with him like 3 years ago, nd they're still best friends but i cant believe her,should i invite him to lunch with us or not? ny the way i'm 13 and in 7th grade... HELP!!!
Should i invite my new bf to lunch, the friends i sit with dont really like him....?
If there your real friends you should be able to invite anyone you want. Just be out spoken about it. Like "hey guys this is, you know" make jokes about uncomfortable situations.
Should i invite my new bf to lunch, the friends i sit with dont really like him....?
If there your real friends you should be able to invite anyone you want. Just be out spoken about it. Like "hey guys this is, you know" make jokes about uncomfortable situations.
Shoud I invite someone for a chocolate bath in Japan?
I hear this is a big thing there.
Shoud I invite someone for a chocolate bath in Japan?
nudge
you know I was thinking something of the same
Reply:Oo... yes... That would be highly enjoyable. ;)
Reply:go ahead..
scientific name
Shoud I invite someone for a chocolate bath in Japan?
nudge
you know I was thinking something of the same
Reply:Oo... yes... That would be highly enjoyable. ;)
Reply:go ahead..
scientific name
Why would my ex , who I have talked to since march, send me a blog invite on myspace?
I am enaged and VERY faithfrul to my finace'.
He also is in a relationship.
I am just really confused.
Why would my ex , who I have talked to since march, send me a blog invite on myspace?
Maybe it was just a simple technical error. Sometimes these things just send out invites to everyone in your email address book (I don't know MySpace very well).
I'd choose a technical messup ahead of any bad intentions if the page is brand new. If not then no clue.
Reply:my other ex sends emails about my space , etc, i don't take it
too serious, i delete the messages.
Reply:ex's are weird, you never know what they are thinking.
Reply:Its just myspace...it doesn't mean anything.
Reply:Why wouldn't he? Apparently you're friends if you've talked since March...
Reply:myspace is a way to keep in touch with friends and make new ones. either he wants to keep in touch with you or he wants to have the most friends, whether he knows/talks to them or not.
if you don't like it, just click deny and move on.
Reply:so that you could read it....doesn't imply he wants you but that you may find the blog interesting
Reply:its not confusing really he just thinks ur cool and added u
unless it was some bitter breakup this shouldnt be unusual to u
Reply:If you are trying to stay faithful to your current man , then politely turn down the other's request and tell him next time to forget about you . Or , just ignore the blog invite .
Reply:obviously your looking into it too much... im sure its nothing personal, he probably sent it to everyone. its just myspace.. dont let it go to your head.
Reply:maybe he just wants u to read his blog. what he probably done is just mass send them to everyone on his friends list.
Reply:It might not mean anything, or it could mean that he wants to bridge the gap between you two- did you word the question wrong or have you not talked since march? If you have been talking then ask him.
Reply:Jeez...it's probably nothing personal. He probably sent the same invite to everyone on his friend's list. Don't read anything into it.
Reply:awww mabye he likes ya as a friend, not anything more now.
Reply:Don't be confused love, just ignore him and continue on with life as it was. He is scratching an itch that he has had for a long time, and should have ignored. Trust me, whatever it is he has to say is uninteresting and would only serve to piss off your current lover.
He also is in a relationship.
I am just really confused.
Why would my ex , who I have talked to since march, send me a blog invite on myspace?
Maybe it was just a simple technical error. Sometimes these things just send out invites to everyone in your email address book (I don't know MySpace very well).
I'd choose a technical messup ahead of any bad intentions if the page is brand new. If not then no clue.
Reply:my other ex sends emails about my space , etc, i don't take it
too serious, i delete the messages.
Reply:ex's are weird, you never know what they are thinking.
Reply:Its just myspace...it doesn't mean anything.
Reply:Why wouldn't he? Apparently you're friends if you've talked since March...
Reply:myspace is a way to keep in touch with friends and make new ones. either he wants to keep in touch with you or he wants to have the most friends, whether he knows/talks to them or not.
if you don't like it, just click deny and move on.
Reply:so that you could read it....doesn't imply he wants you but that you may find the blog interesting
Reply:its not confusing really he just thinks ur cool and added u
unless it was some bitter breakup this shouldnt be unusual to u
Reply:If you are trying to stay faithful to your current man , then politely turn down the other's request and tell him next time to forget about you . Or , just ignore the blog invite .
Reply:obviously your looking into it too much... im sure its nothing personal, he probably sent it to everyone. its just myspace.. dont let it go to your head.
Reply:maybe he just wants u to read his blog. what he probably done is just mass send them to everyone on his friends list.
Reply:It might not mean anything, or it could mean that he wants to bridge the gap between you two- did you word the question wrong or have you not talked since march? If you have been talking then ask him.
Reply:Jeez...it's probably nothing personal. He probably sent the same invite to everyone on his friend's list. Don't read anything into it.
Reply:awww mabye he likes ya as a friend, not anything more now.
Reply:Don't be confused love, just ignore him and continue on with life as it was. He is scratching an itch that he has had for a long time, and should have ignored. Trust me, whatever it is he has to say is uninteresting and would only serve to piss off your current lover.
Error: This invite cannot be sent because you have exceeded your Friends limit.what is this?
i have only 5 friend in my add list my mail box is empty.what should i do now?
Error: This invite cannot be sent because you have exceeded your Friends limit.what is this?
Ok that is strange, maybe check your *sent* messages* just to make sure those are cleared out. Usually on 360 I think the friend limit is 300 per 360 page, or 299, not 100 percent sure. I am wondering if maybe this is a glitch or mailbox issue. Yahoo acting up again, I mean if you only have 5 friends, I can't see the problem there.
Reply:It's a glitch, so you should do the following and it MAY clear up:
- Go to your "Mailbox" page.
- Click on outstanding invitations (left side of page...your limit is 100) and delete them.
- Delete expired invitations (view the invitations and then delete them on that next screen). Check your "Sent" folder as well.
- Go to your "My Friends" page. Remove or add the people listed there. Also, check your "Favorites" list on the left side.
Then,
- Go to your "Mailbox" page
- You will see your messages listed there. Next to each message is a box. Click on it to select the box. Above the green word "Messages" in that same section, there is a "Delete" button. Click it and it will delete the messages that you've selected.
- There are also a "First | %26lt; Prev | Next %26gt; | Last" links to the upper right of the section to advance to other pages if you have many messages.
Error: This invite cannot be sent because you have exceeded your Friends limit.what is this?
Ok that is strange, maybe check your *sent* messages* just to make sure those are cleared out. Usually on 360 I think the friend limit is 300 per 360 page, or 299, not 100 percent sure. I am wondering if maybe this is a glitch or mailbox issue. Yahoo acting up again, I mean if you only have 5 friends, I can't see the problem there.
Reply:It's a glitch, so you should do the following and it MAY clear up:
- Go to your "Mailbox" page.
- Click on outstanding invitations (left side of page...your limit is 100) and delete them.
- Delete expired invitations (view the invitations and then delete them on that next screen). Check your "Sent" folder as well.
- Go to your "My Friends" page. Remove or add the people listed there. Also, check your "Favorites" list on the left side.
Then,
- Go to your "Mailbox" page
- You will see your messages listed there. Next to each message is a box. Click on it to select the box. Above the green word "Messages" in that same section, there is a "Delete" button. Click it and it will delete the messages that you've selected.
- There are also a "First | %26lt; Prev | Next %26gt; | Last" links to the upper right of the section to advance to other pages if you have many messages.
If I invite you to my pitty party will you come?
Why are so many glbt trying to date on a conscious level, but setting themselves up to fail because they are afraid to date on a subconscious level? and Why do I let myself be one of them? Where is my mr. perfect and why do boys smell funny?
If I invite you to my pitty party will you come?
I love parties :)
I ll make pattycakes, ahem, i mean pittycakes!
Reply:I'll only come if the Invitation spells pity correctly - there is only one 'T' :))
Where is your Mr. Perfect? Stop looking and then you will find him. Desperation is a terrible thing.
Why do boys smell funny? They do? Hadn't noticed. Make sure they shower first.
Put a smile on your dial, it makes you look pretty, nobody likes a glum bum.
Reply:Hiya!
I love a good party!
Yeah feeling very sorry for myself at the moment, why am I so different from the rest of mankind!!!!
Where is your Mr Perfect?, Dunno sorry, probably only in books/TV I'm afraid :(
Em...........why do boys smell funny, they do, I know.... probably need to use more girly deoderant, shampoo and perfume.
Then they would smell much sweeter. :)
Reply:I don't think I'd be able to attend, cause I'll probably be having a pity party of my own that day.
You're human. Just give yourself permission to fail. You'll find true love some day.
What do you mean about boys smelling funny??
Reply:huh? is there a party or not??...
If I invite you to my pitty party will you come?
I love parties :)
I ll make pattycakes, ahem, i mean pittycakes!
Reply:I'll only come if the Invitation spells pity correctly - there is only one 'T' :))
Where is your Mr. Perfect? Stop looking and then you will find him. Desperation is a terrible thing.
Why do boys smell funny? They do? Hadn't noticed. Make sure they shower first.
Put a smile on your dial, it makes you look pretty, nobody likes a glum bum.
Reply:Hiya!
I love a good party!
Yeah feeling very sorry for myself at the moment, why am I so different from the rest of mankind!!!!
Where is your Mr Perfect?, Dunno sorry, probably only in books/TV I'm afraid :(
Em...........why do boys smell funny, they do, I know.... probably need to use more girly deoderant, shampoo and perfume.
Then they would smell much sweeter. :)
Reply:I don't think I'd be able to attend, cause I'll probably be having a pity party of my own that day.
You're human. Just give yourself permission to fail. You'll find true love some day.
What do you mean about boys smelling funny??
Reply:huh? is there a party or not??...
Could I invite other 2999 people to live in a town-counrty independently? Have I the right as a human?
Of course anyone has the right to attempt to do so, but unless you've got more than Bill Gates' net worth, you're not going to buy yourself a country.
The island answer is only half-correct. Every existing island is already claimed by some country, so taking it over and declaring independence is tantamount to a declaration of war against the country that owns it.
Your best bet would actually be to try to BUILD an island on a coral atoll in international waters. Although, if you did, you might want not to issue a declaration of independence unless you either have a country with an army that will both ally itself with you and recognize your sovereignty, or your own army to fight off any other countries that might want to annex you (happened to the Republic of Minerva in the 70s). Either way, not really realistic unless you've got at least twenty million bucks to spend on this project.
Then again, you could try to start a commune - plenty of those sprung up in the 60s. Unfortunately, you'd still be subject to the laws of wherever you found it, and would have to pay applicable property taxes, etc.
Could I invite other 2999 people to live in a town-counrty independently? Have I the right as a human?
Sure, if you buy a private island.
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The island answer is only half-correct. Every existing island is already claimed by some country, so taking it over and declaring independence is tantamount to a declaration of war against the country that owns it.
Your best bet would actually be to try to BUILD an island on a coral atoll in international waters. Although, if you did, you might want not to issue a declaration of independence unless you either have a country with an army that will both ally itself with you and recognize your sovereignty, or your own army to fight off any other countries that might want to annex you (happened to the Republic of Minerva in the 70s). Either way, not really realistic unless you've got at least twenty million bucks to spend on this project.
Then again, you could try to start a commune - plenty of those sprung up in the 60s. Unfortunately, you'd still be subject to the laws of wherever you found it, and would have to pay applicable property taxes, etc.
Could I invite other 2999 people to live in a town-counrty independently? Have I the right as a human?
Sure, if you buy a private island.
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Should I invite my mother to my wedding?
My mother and I have never gotten along.She has never forgiven me because my father got custody of my brother and me when I was 5 years old. She blames me because I was a daddy's girl so it must have been my fault, not her fault because she was an alcoholic. Well now fast forward 17 years later and she still won't let it go. Up until a few weeks ago we would talk once in a while vie e-mail then bam out of no where she tells me that she doesn't know if she can go to my wedding if my father is going to be there and if he is going to walk me down the aisle, and if "his" family is going to be there.(Mind you he is paying for the wedding and they )I wrote her an e-mail back and said that she wouldn't be invited and then she wouldn鈥檛 have to worry about it. Now I am getting pressured by my brother and grandmother to let her come. But I know if she does she will be hell bent on ruining my day. Should I try to be the better person and let her come or should I follow my heart and leave her out?
Should I invite my mother to my wedding?
You know your mother. If you feel she cannot be civil and just let you enjoy your day, don't invite her. It sounds like you don't have a very good relationship with her. She blaming you all these years because your father got custody, that's a red flag!!
The flip side is, if you don't invite her, you will never hear the end of it.
If you are pretty certain she'll cause trouble, don't invite her. THIS IS YOUR DAY, NOT HERS.
Reply:this is your day do what is best for you, follow your heart
Reply:Ask for help from your brother and grandmother since they're pressuring you so much. Tell them your fears, and maybe all of you can get together to discuss her being invited. Surely with her mother present, she will agree to be civil for your sake?
Best wishes %26amp; Congratulations.
Reply:It looks like either way you go, you wont be completely happy with the outcome. If she is there, you feel she may sabotage your day. But if she isnt there, it will sadden you that she could not share this day with you. I suggest family counseling well before your big day. If during that time, you and your mother can reconcile enough, maybe she can be apart of your wedding. If she refuses to go with you, thats ok. You can still go without her. You and your therapist can help decide whether or not your mother could be a potential spoiler. In the case she does refuse counseling with you, then you may just have received your answer to your own question. If she cant put aside her differences for one day, then she isnt worth having around for anything, let alone a wedding. Be sure to tell her that she is hurting you with her selfishness. I too do not get along with my mother, and I will have to some day decide if I want her apart of my big day. And I read a lot of Dear Abby and watch Dr. Phil whenever I can. They would say see a counselor.
Congrats and Good Luck!!!
Reply:If you have to ask, the answer is no. Follow your heart, it's your wedding, and you should have who you want at your wedding. She's giving you ultimatums that she has no right to give. You've lived with your dad, he's paying for the wedding and she won't come if he's there? Good Lord... don't be emotionally blackmailed by your brother and grandmother about inviting her, the decision is yours.
Reply:You should invite your mum. You could perhaps e-mail her..."Hey Mum, it would be a great honor for me if you could witness my big day. Dad may have his own family now but I'm a part of you, regardless what, and I want you to be a part of my most important day. You'll make me the most most hapiest woman if you come and share this joyful day with me. I need someone to tell me if my make-up is ok and if my veil is pinned correctly and i want my mother to be the one telling me all that and I want everyone to know that I am beautiful cos of my u....."...something like that
Let everyone else know that you have invited your mum and you would greatly appreciate it if they could respect your decision by putting all past frictions aside even if its just for a day.
Reply:be the better person.. and your father is right.. things haven been right.. but on the most important day of your life please do invite her.. wether she would turn up or not is a different issue.. but u kinda owe her this...
i dunno why she started drinkin or what your story is.. but you were taken away from her.. and it did hurt her.. i wont say this will mend things.. atleast it would hurt her more than it already has
Reply:This is a very special day for you ... the beginning of a relationship commitment. Listen to your heart and do what makes you and your partner happy. If there is anything or anyone that threatens to sour this day for you in any way ... leave them off the guest list. Your Mom's behavior and manipulation are who she is and will be at your wedding if present. Be straight with her and tell her you have thought about her email and you agree that it's best to avoid conflict. Perhaps there is another way another time to include her in a celebration ... a dinner out with you as a couple including your bro %26amp; Grandma %26amp; whoever else she can get on well with. No one has a right to spoil such an important day in your life. Begin a new tradition of setting boundries that prohibit others from treating you with anything less than respect. Congratulations on your marriage!
Reply:Have you asked your Father for his opinion? It would be a shame not to invite her, but if she is hell bent to cause problems it will be your Dad and his family who take the brunt of it, so his imput might help you decide.
Reply:You answered your own question in your first sentence of the paragraph.
"My mother and I have never gotten along...."
If she is an alcoholic, and not a recovering alcoholic; she is not willing nor able to take any blame for what has happened in her life.
Children at the age of five are not responsible for their parents mistakes, the person who is making the mistake is responsible.
You have to be the better person to yourself, for yourself, not to please your brother or your grandmother. You do not need anyone ruining your day. Your Mom has chosen to act the way that she has, and you can choose to follow your heart and celebrate with your Dad and the rest of your family.
She has left herself out, your father has raised you, he has been mother and father to you because of her bad choices.
You forgive yourself, enjoy your day with your Dad and other family. Your Mom is only your biological Mom, she is not your parent.
Congratulations on your wedding, I wish you and your fiance the best.
Reply:This woman is setting conditions for your wedding.she must still be an alcoholic.invite her as a guest only but not to have any role in the ceremony.If you do she will ruin your day.She is still as selfish and self centered as she was 17 yrs ago.This is your day and daddy has paid for it.do not let any body spoil your joy.Have
an uncle or a cousin at the ready just in case she shows up.At the first sign of trouble whisk her out.Ignore brother and granny they are hopeless romantics.be a beautiful bride and have a blessed day.
Reply:i think you leave her out!!! it was obviously not that important to her to be there if she said she "wasnt sure she could make it".
HAVE A GREAT WEDDING! THE DAY IS FOR YOU AND NO ONE ELSE. DO WHAT YOU WANT DONT LET YOUR FAMILY PRESSURE YOU
Reply:i wouldn't and it wouldn't bother me either
Reply:That's a tough one. On one had you want her to be there and on the other you don't want to be constantly looking over your shoulder to see who she's fighting with or what she's doing.
I'm personally not a very forgiving person. If you really feel that you'll spend your whole wedding day stressing over if your mother is going to start something than i'd suggest you not invite her.
The only way i'd let her come is if i sat down with her and had a long talk about why she's soo angry at you for something you couldn't control when you were 5. Explain to her that you don't want her to in a sense 'ruine' your wedding day with fighting. That if you are feeling especially nice and do decide to invite her that she MUST be on best behavier. No drinking at all since she has a history and most drinkers get aggressive and loud when drinking. That you'll have someone watching her the whole time and that if she slips up once, or does anything to make your day less than perfect that not only will you have her removed from the wedding but that you'll make sure she's removed from your life. Maybe that will scare her.
It's hard to tell someone that close that you don't want them there, but what it comes down to is it's your day, and you shouldn't have to be stressed because your mom won't get over the past. I know everyone on here's going to tell you that you have to invite her. But not to sound like a bridezilla myself, but i wouldn't put up with the ultimatium that she gave you about it's either her or your father. They are both adults and she should be grown up enough to sit in the same room with the man that she was Married to. If not for herself, but at the very least for you.
I wish you lots of luck with this...
Reply:Explain to her how important it is that your big day doesn't get ruined. Tell her she is invited to the wedding if she can promise you there will be no trouble.
Reply:Your Wedding will be one of your most beautiful memories of your life.
Don't let anyone spoil it.
If your mother has been angry for 17 years, I'm pretty sure she will use this opportunity to vent her anger.
Don't give her the chance.
After the honeymoon you and your new husband can offer to take her out to dinner.
Maybe she will go and maybe not.
Let it be and go on with your life.
No guilt feelings.
You haven't done anything wrong.
Congratulations on your new life together.
Reply:If you do not have a relationship with her and you do not want her there, then you shouldnt invite her. She has already left you with the impression that she may not behave herself so why risk it. She still has not matured enuf to accept that children cannot cause a divorce and to blame your child for anything that is your responsibility is ridiculous. This is your day and it should be a happy one, so do what your heart tells you to do and dont let anyone pressure you.
Reply:If you know she's going to ruin YOUR big day. I wouldn't invite her. Your family wants you to spare her feelings.. This wedding is about YOU and sharing it with people who will celebrate your marriage. If your mother is just going to make you tense and enjoy your wedding less why bother inviting her. If she gets all defensive in the end remind her that SHE stated that she wasn't sure if she could go to the wedding if your father/ father's family would be there.
Reply:Your wedding day is your day. It should be one filled with joy, celebration, and love. It shouldn't be a time for your mother to manipulate you and the rest of your family. It sounds like she would not be there to celebrate but to cause problems. I would leave her out. The last thing you need to worry about is what kind of stunt your mother is going to pull to ruin the happiest day of your life.
Reply:She is the only mother you have. You should invite her. Then its up to her if she wants to come or not. But at least you invited her. Good luck!
Reply:Follow your heart. This is YOUR day. You don't have to invite your mother out of guilt from others. If you know she's going to try to wreck it don't invite the drama. If you choose not to invite her, be firm when you let your brother and grandmother know too, "No, this is my day, I'm not going to have it ruined by her causing some sort of scene." No one else can make this decision but you!
Congrats on the wedding!
Reply:She is going to try and ruin your day anyway because as you said you two have never gotten along and she is an alcoholic. If alcohol is going to be served she will be drinking and all hell will break loose. This is YOUR day so you have to make that decision with your fiance and other close family members.
Reply:It would be nice to have her there, but if she is going to cause drama then its not worth it. You only get married once and you don't want to have memories of your mother ruining your day. You can always send her pictures.
Should I invite my mother to my wedding?
You know your mother. If you feel she cannot be civil and just let you enjoy your day, don't invite her. It sounds like you don't have a very good relationship with her. She blaming you all these years because your father got custody, that's a red flag!!
The flip side is, if you don't invite her, you will never hear the end of it.
If you are pretty certain she'll cause trouble, don't invite her. THIS IS YOUR DAY, NOT HERS.
Reply:this is your day do what is best for you, follow your heart
Reply:Ask for help from your brother and grandmother since they're pressuring you so much. Tell them your fears, and maybe all of you can get together to discuss her being invited. Surely with her mother present, she will agree to be civil for your sake?
Best wishes %26amp; Congratulations.
Reply:It looks like either way you go, you wont be completely happy with the outcome. If she is there, you feel she may sabotage your day. But if she isnt there, it will sadden you that she could not share this day with you. I suggest family counseling well before your big day. If during that time, you and your mother can reconcile enough, maybe she can be apart of your wedding. If she refuses to go with you, thats ok. You can still go without her. You and your therapist can help decide whether or not your mother could be a potential spoiler. In the case she does refuse counseling with you, then you may just have received your answer to your own question. If she cant put aside her differences for one day, then she isnt worth having around for anything, let alone a wedding. Be sure to tell her that she is hurting you with her selfishness. I too do not get along with my mother, and I will have to some day decide if I want her apart of my big day. And I read a lot of Dear Abby and watch Dr. Phil whenever I can. They would say see a counselor.
Congrats and Good Luck!!!
Reply:If you have to ask, the answer is no. Follow your heart, it's your wedding, and you should have who you want at your wedding. She's giving you ultimatums that she has no right to give. You've lived with your dad, he's paying for the wedding and she won't come if he's there? Good Lord... don't be emotionally blackmailed by your brother and grandmother about inviting her, the decision is yours.
Reply:You should invite your mum. You could perhaps e-mail her..."Hey Mum, it would be a great honor for me if you could witness my big day. Dad may have his own family now but I'm a part of you, regardless what, and I want you to be a part of my most important day. You'll make me the most most hapiest woman if you come and share this joyful day with me. I need someone to tell me if my make-up is ok and if my veil is pinned correctly and i want my mother to be the one telling me all that and I want everyone to know that I am beautiful cos of my u....."...something like that
Let everyone else know that you have invited your mum and you would greatly appreciate it if they could respect your decision by putting all past frictions aside even if its just for a day.
Reply:be the better person.. and your father is right.. things haven been right.. but on the most important day of your life please do invite her.. wether she would turn up or not is a different issue.. but u kinda owe her this...
i dunno why she started drinkin or what your story is.. but you were taken away from her.. and it did hurt her.. i wont say this will mend things.. atleast it would hurt her more than it already has
Reply:This is a very special day for you ... the beginning of a relationship commitment. Listen to your heart and do what makes you and your partner happy. If there is anything or anyone that threatens to sour this day for you in any way ... leave them off the guest list. Your Mom's behavior and manipulation are who she is and will be at your wedding if present. Be straight with her and tell her you have thought about her email and you agree that it's best to avoid conflict. Perhaps there is another way another time to include her in a celebration ... a dinner out with you as a couple including your bro %26amp; Grandma %26amp; whoever else she can get on well with. No one has a right to spoil such an important day in your life. Begin a new tradition of setting boundries that prohibit others from treating you with anything less than respect. Congratulations on your marriage!
Reply:Have you asked your Father for his opinion? It would be a shame not to invite her, but if she is hell bent to cause problems it will be your Dad and his family who take the brunt of it, so his imput might help you decide.
Reply:You answered your own question in your first sentence of the paragraph.
"My mother and I have never gotten along...."
If she is an alcoholic, and not a recovering alcoholic; she is not willing nor able to take any blame for what has happened in her life.
Children at the age of five are not responsible for their parents mistakes, the person who is making the mistake is responsible.
You have to be the better person to yourself, for yourself, not to please your brother or your grandmother. You do not need anyone ruining your day. Your Mom has chosen to act the way that she has, and you can choose to follow your heart and celebrate with your Dad and the rest of your family.
She has left herself out, your father has raised you, he has been mother and father to you because of her bad choices.
You forgive yourself, enjoy your day with your Dad and other family. Your Mom is only your biological Mom, she is not your parent.
Congratulations on your wedding, I wish you and your fiance the best.
Reply:This woman is setting conditions for your wedding.she must still be an alcoholic.invite her as a guest only but not to have any role in the ceremony.If you do she will ruin your day.She is still as selfish and self centered as she was 17 yrs ago.This is your day and daddy has paid for it.do not let any body spoil your joy.Have
an uncle or a cousin at the ready just in case she shows up.At the first sign of trouble whisk her out.Ignore brother and granny they are hopeless romantics.be a beautiful bride and have a blessed day.
Reply:i think you leave her out!!! it was obviously not that important to her to be there if she said she "wasnt sure she could make it".
HAVE A GREAT WEDDING! THE DAY IS FOR YOU AND NO ONE ELSE. DO WHAT YOU WANT DONT LET YOUR FAMILY PRESSURE YOU
Reply:i wouldn't and it wouldn't bother me either
Reply:That's a tough one. On one had you want her to be there and on the other you don't want to be constantly looking over your shoulder to see who she's fighting with or what she's doing.
I'm personally not a very forgiving person. If you really feel that you'll spend your whole wedding day stressing over if your mother is going to start something than i'd suggest you not invite her.
The only way i'd let her come is if i sat down with her and had a long talk about why she's soo angry at you for something you couldn't control when you were 5. Explain to her that you don't want her to in a sense 'ruine' your wedding day with fighting. That if you are feeling especially nice and do decide to invite her that she MUST be on best behavier. No drinking at all since she has a history and most drinkers get aggressive and loud when drinking. That you'll have someone watching her the whole time and that if she slips up once, or does anything to make your day less than perfect that not only will you have her removed from the wedding but that you'll make sure she's removed from your life. Maybe that will scare her.
It's hard to tell someone that close that you don't want them there, but what it comes down to is it's your day, and you shouldn't have to be stressed because your mom won't get over the past. I know everyone on here's going to tell you that you have to invite her. But not to sound like a bridezilla myself, but i wouldn't put up with the ultimatium that she gave you about it's either her or your father. They are both adults and she should be grown up enough to sit in the same room with the man that she was Married to. If not for herself, but at the very least for you.
I wish you lots of luck with this...
Reply:Explain to her how important it is that your big day doesn't get ruined. Tell her she is invited to the wedding if she can promise you there will be no trouble.
Reply:Your Wedding will be one of your most beautiful memories of your life.
Don't let anyone spoil it.
If your mother has been angry for 17 years, I'm pretty sure she will use this opportunity to vent her anger.
Don't give her the chance.
After the honeymoon you and your new husband can offer to take her out to dinner.
Maybe she will go and maybe not.
Let it be and go on with your life.
No guilt feelings.
You haven't done anything wrong.
Congratulations on your new life together.
Reply:If you do not have a relationship with her and you do not want her there, then you shouldnt invite her. She has already left you with the impression that she may not behave herself so why risk it. She still has not matured enuf to accept that children cannot cause a divorce and to blame your child for anything that is your responsibility is ridiculous. This is your day and it should be a happy one, so do what your heart tells you to do and dont let anyone pressure you.
Reply:If you know she's going to ruin YOUR big day. I wouldn't invite her. Your family wants you to spare her feelings.. This wedding is about YOU and sharing it with people who will celebrate your marriage. If your mother is just going to make you tense and enjoy your wedding less why bother inviting her. If she gets all defensive in the end remind her that SHE stated that she wasn't sure if she could go to the wedding if your father/ father's family would be there.
Reply:Your wedding day is your day. It should be one filled with joy, celebration, and love. It shouldn't be a time for your mother to manipulate you and the rest of your family. It sounds like she would not be there to celebrate but to cause problems. I would leave her out. The last thing you need to worry about is what kind of stunt your mother is going to pull to ruin the happiest day of your life.
Reply:She is the only mother you have. You should invite her. Then its up to her if she wants to come or not. But at least you invited her. Good luck!
Reply:Follow your heart. This is YOUR day. You don't have to invite your mother out of guilt from others. If you know she's going to try to wreck it don't invite the drama. If you choose not to invite her, be firm when you let your brother and grandmother know too, "No, this is my day, I'm not going to have it ruined by her causing some sort of scene." No one else can make this decision but you!
Congrats on the wedding!
Reply:She is going to try and ruin your day anyway because as you said you two have never gotten along and she is an alcoholic. If alcohol is going to be served she will be drinking and all hell will break loose. This is YOUR day so you have to make that decision with your fiance and other close family members.
Reply:It would be nice to have her there, but if she is going to cause drama then its not worth it. You only get married once and you don't want to have memories of your mother ruining your day. You can always send her pictures.
Should i invite my friend to the movies with me?
We just saw eachother last night for the first time in months and she gave me her number and told her to call her. Im just getting over being sick but i still got a scratchy voice. Would it be rude to invite her to the movies/hangout? Am I calling her to soon and sounding desperate? idk...
Should i invite my friend to the movies with me?
its never to soon to call a friend if she didn't want to keep in touch with you she wouldn't of gave you her number. you should call her and ask her to hangout.
Reply:No, it just sounds like you have missed your friend and would like to spend some time with her. Go ahead and invite her. I'm sure she would like it very much! : )
Should i invite my friend to the movies with me?
its never to soon to call a friend if she didn't want to keep in touch with you she wouldn't of gave you her number. you should call her and ask her to hangout.
Reply:No, it just sounds like you have missed your friend and would like to spend some time with her. Go ahead and invite her. I'm sure she would like it very much! : )
How to invite a room mate in SIMS 2 (psp)?
make really good friends with them, press O on your phone and you should have them come over, if they like you they stay and vice versa.
Can't we Republicans,be gracious enough, to invite the Democratic leaders to go hunting with Dick Chaney?
Just to show them our hearts are in the right place, we can follow behind them.---------Way behind them, and well out of Dick's range.
Can't we Republicans,be gracious enough, to invite the Democratic leaders to go hunting with Dick Chaney?
You can go along. I'm stayig here.--Chaney aims like
Mr. McGoo.---Better wear a helmet and flak-jacket, and wait in the car.
Reply:Makes you wounder how many would pay to see their fellow husbands/wifes go with Dick Cheny, Tabs?
That was a good one thou.
Reply:You know,I think Bill might even pay for Hillary to go. LOL!
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Can't we Republicans,be gracious enough, to invite the Democratic leaders to go hunting with Dick Chaney?
You can go along. I'm stayig here.--Chaney aims like
Mr. McGoo.---Better wear a helmet and flak-jacket, and wait in the car.
Reply:Makes you wounder how many would pay to see their fellow husbands/wifes go with Dick Cheny, Tabs?
That was a good one thou.
Reply:You know,I think Bill might even pay for Hillary to go. LOL!
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Should I invite grandma over for New Years?
All she ever does is get drunk and tell me what a floozy my mom is.......
Should I invite grandma over for New Years?
With a grandma that can bake and cook and drink you under the table why the hell not. When she starts talking floozy call a cab.
Reply:Yeah, why not. She'll be sleeping by 10.
Reply:hey whats so bad about a floozy mom? Those are fun to hang out with!
Reply:Well babes.... that is up to you I'd have to say...
Reply:wow, ur grandma drinks? sure, invite her over, video tape her doing something funny, and put it on youtube! it'll be classic
Reply:Didn't I tell you that I already had an invite for New Year? That sounds like me! Two glasses of wine and my legs go numb!! Or are you someone else's grand-daughter?
Reply:yes u should
i dont want to be dramatic but when u wont have her, u will regret it
i wish i knew my grandma :)
invite her!!!!
Reply:Yeah my gran passed away in sept and there are times now i think iwish i'd invited her to.... whatever we were doing. If she starts on about your mom tel her to leave off and you'll have a chat about it when she's had less to drink.
Reply:Does eggnog come by the truck load?
Should I invite grandma over for New Years?
With a grandma that can bake and cook and drink you under the table why the hell not. When she starts talking floozy call a cab.
Reply:Yeah, why not. She'll be sleeping by 10.
Reply:hey whats so bad about a floozy mom? Those are fun to hang out with!
Reply:Well babes.... that is up to you I'd have to say...
Reply:wow, ur grandma drinks? sure, invite her over, video tape her doing something funny, and put it on youtube! it'll be classic
Reply:Didn't I tell you that I already had an invite for New Year? That sounds like me! Two glasses of wine and my legs go numb!! Or are you someone else's grand-daughter?
Reply:yes u should
i dont want to be dramatic but when u wont have her, u will regret it
i wish i knew my grandma :)
invite her!!!!
Reply:Yeah my gran passed away in sept and there are times now i think iwish i'd invited her to.... whatever we were doing. If she starts on about your mom tel her to leave off and you'll have a chat about it when she's had less to drink.
Reply:Does eggnog come by the truck load?
Should I invite my ATHEIST neighbor over for Christmas?
He's green, furry, callous, and mean. He has a heart so small, it cannot be seen.
He might steal my Christmas!!!
Should I invite my ATHEIST neighbor over for Christmas?
I think so Christmas is not only a religious thing, it is a special time of the year to spend with family and friends. I am muslim and I have my christmas tree up, I do it every year because it is a memory of my mom, and it is beautiful all the lights and all. I think you should! I would! I love your questions!
Would you tell me when...
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Reply:No worries, you already stole it from the Pagans.
Reply:Well,if he isn't God fearing,I would keep an eye on him,he just might steal more than Christmas.
Reply:You have to hold hands with everyone in town and sing, or he won't bother.
Reply:Of course, love every body.
Reply:Oh Cindy Lou Who. There is is good in him yet, I simply would bet. Invite him over for alot of fun, that is funny
Reply:yes i think you should it would be nice. Jesus Christ told us all do unto others as you have done unto yourself
Reply:*sigh*
Reply:So that is where my ex went!!!
Tell him I said "hi" ...
:)
Reply:Sounds more like a Republican.
Reply:Cool! I didn't know Oscar the Grouch was Atheist!
Reply:Sorry but Jesus isn't an atheist.
Reply:You can't have a Christmas without the Grinch
Reply:No, but if he sees you dancing even after he steals your presents his heart might grow bigger.
Reply:I never really gave a thought to the Grinch's religious beliefs before. He could be an Atheist. He could also belong to a faith other than Christianity. Or perhaps he is a fundamentalist Christian who hates the commercialism of Christmas.
Reply:If you make it very Jesus...y, then no.
But if it's just enjoying the holidays, and giving presents, then sure.
Reply:Hey I'm furry!
Reply:He really is a heel, huh?
He sounds as cuddly as a cactus.
Reply:Dad??
Reply:OK, ummmm, at the end of dinner he would have to convert (following the script).
If the Grinch REALLY wanted to stop them from having Christmas, he would have cut off their hands (pardon my morbidity). Remember the song? "Christmas day is in our grasp, as long as we have hands to clasp."
Have a great night!
Reply:who ever said that the grinch was atheist?
Reply:I don't think you have to worry about him coming anywhere near you...
Reply:Mean people don't get cool presents. Period.
Reply:let him carve the roast beast
Reply:No! He'll eat your ham and steal your presents. Jesus would be ashamed! ;-)
He might steal my Christmas!!!
Should I invite my ATHEIST neighbor over for Christmas?
I think so Christmas is not only a religious thing, it is a special time of the year to spend with family and friends. I am muslim and I have my christmas tree up, I do it every year because it is a memory of my mom, and it is beautiful all the lights and all. I think you should! I would! I love your questions!
Would you tell me when...
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:No worries, you already stole it from the Pagans.
Reply:Well,if he isn't God fearing,I would keep an eye on him,he just might steal more than Christmas.
Reply:You have to hold hands with everyone in town and sing, or he won't bother.
Reply:Of course, love every body.
Reply:Oh Cindy Lou Who. There is is good in him yet, I simply would bet. Invite him over for alot of fun, that is funny
Reply:yes i think you should it would be nice. Jesus Christ told us all do unto others as you have done unto yourself
Reply:*sigh*
Reply:So that is where my ex went!!!
Tell him I said "hi" ...
:)
Reply:Sounds more like a Republican.
Reply:Cool! I didn't know Oscar the Grouch was Atheist!
Reply:Sorry but Jesus isn't an atheist.
Reply:You can't have a Christmas without the Grinch
Reply:No, but if he sees you dancing even after he steals your presents his heart might grow bigger.
Reply:I never really gave a thought to the Grinch's religious beliefs before. He could be an Atheist. He could also belong to a faith other than Christianity. Or perhaps he is a fundamentalist Christian who hates the commercialism of Christmas.
Reply:If you make it very Jesus...y, then no.
But if it's just enjoying the holidays, and giving presents, then sure.
Reply:Hey I'm furry!
Reply:He really is a heel, huh?
He sounds as cuddly as a cactus.
Reply:Dad??
Reply:OK, ummmm, at the end of dinner he would have to convert (following the script).
If the Grinch REALLY wanted to stop them from having Christmas, he would have cut off their hands (pardon my morbidity). Remember the song? "Christmas day is in our grasp, as long as we have hands to clasp."
Have a great night!
Reply:who ever said that the grinch was atheist?
Reply:I don't think you have to worry about him coming anywhere near you...
Reply:Mean people don't get cool presents. Period.
Reply:let him carve the roast beast
Reply:No! He'll eat your ham and steal your presents. Jesus would be ashamed! ;-)
Who to Invite to the wedding?
We can only invite between 200 %26amp; 250 people to our wedding because of the place we are getting married. I know that I need to invite immediate family and close friends but who shoud get invitations that are not included in this category? I don't want to leave anyone out just because we have a limit on people we can invite.
Who to Invite to the wedding?
Unfortunately that's going to happen despite your best intentions. When planning my reception, we married out of the country and had a reception at home a week later, I had to put a stop to the number of people being included because my then fiance was wanting to invite everyone and their brother!
We finally settled on immediate family, close relatives (these are the ones you see/talk to more often than at funerals, weddings %26amp; family reunions), friends (talk to/see weekly or a couple times a month), parents friends who have known you your entire life, co-workers (that you see socially, not just in the office). And even those we went over and over. We too didn't want to leave anyone out but sometimes, it just can't be helped.
And a big oversight to watch out for when doing your guest list is partners. When you invite your friend Jill, don't forget to include her friend Jack as her guest, married couples and significant others also count as 2 guests not just 1. You didn't mention if you're including children. (We didn't because I know several children who are finicky eaters and I wasn't catering to their picky appetites.) So you could find that by iinviting your Aunt Mary and Uncle John and family you've included 5 people to your total guest list.
I just saw someone else mention the wedding party count as guests too...but don't forget to count their partners, spouses, significant others, etc.
Reply:Your best friends.
Reply:Make a priority list, then invite as many as you can from the top down.
Reply:The people you're not super-close with, like co-workers and neighbors who aren't really friends, will totally understand being left off the guest list. After all, everyone knows that a wedding can be a very costly affair, and the building requirements of many structures that host weddings make the list limited. Aside from family and close friends, you shouldn't invite anyone except the people you truly want to see there. After your limit has been met, if there are still people that you feel bad about not inviting because they're not really close to you or your fiance, you could host a wedding brunch a couple days before your wedding, like a little pre-game party at a nice restaurant, where you pay for everyone's meal and have a little toast to your marriage and stuff like that. Lots of times, people are just happy to be included somehow.
Reply:Invite people whom you and your groom are comfortable with....write it down and make sure your plans are correct....
Reply:Split the list up. Invite those you really really want to be there. Then take the remaining number of guests and split them equally between your parents and your fiance's parents. Trust me they have friends, co workers, neighbors etc... that they feel they just have to invite.
Reply:Inviten the people you truly want there. Since there is a limit try to pick the really special people in your life. Just because the hall holds 200-250 people doesn't mean you have to pack the place. One thing to remember is when you start inviting a bunch of people, then you risk the chance of not being able to invite EVERYONE then people end up getting hurt at you.... so stick with the close friend, family and loved ones and your wedding will be perfect.
Reply:hiya hun.
im having the exact same problem. im getting married in may and only have 100 invites.
what i had to do is yes invite my nearest and dearest, but also had a hard job on not offending people i couldnt invite.. so what i did is i invited the people i see the most often to the wedding, because hun you cant please everyone. BUT so not to offend ppl i explained to them i couldnt invite them to the wedding due to numbers and costs and invited everyone who couldnt come to the wedding round for almost like a wedding shower. there was wine and loads of food and music. it was great! yes i felt bad because i couldnt invite them all. but you cant please everyone all at the same time.
just remember that and youl be fine :)
Reply:colleagues, neighbours, former classmates %26amp; teachers %26amp; inviting a famous, charming personality like beyonce, ronan keating or prince william would be great...
Reply:What you need to do is of course, start with your wedding party (Bridesmaids and Groomsmen and family in wedding) They are part of your guest list count. Then, do immediate family....then your most important other family and friends. If you have any spaces left, add more extended family and friends.
Reply:First you should invite close family members and friends. Then when you have a list for that group of people and you still have room invite other family members and friends that you aren't that necessarily close to. The only people that are going to truly feel left out are the people that you are close to so you start with that group first.
Reply:I would first invite immediate family and close friends. Don't forget to include you, your fiance, and your wedding party into your total because you are part of that tally. Find out how many people you have with this amount of people. Next think of family members that are not immediate but you still would like to come. Figure out your tally from this point. Next you could invite coworkers if you choose or other friends and family members.
Reply:Good grief, that is alot of people. Don;t invite everyone just to fill up a overblown guest list.
Family
Best friends
A few selected co-workers
Well known neighbors
Out-of town relatives
Reply:this is very complictaed, and inevitably osmeone will get their feelings hurt. rule of thumb...if you havent seen or spoken to the peple in 2 yrs, then dont invite them. also, coworkers who are not friends dont need to be there. if you wouldnt include them in a party at your house, why would you invite them to your wedding?
Reply:My friends invited the closest friend first- the people that they just couldn't fit were sent invites to the party/reception to show up right before the cake was cut, but after dinner. They were happy- they got to show up for the most fun part.
Reply:I don't know why you said "only" that's a fairly large guest list to make.
Use letters or numbers to designate each circle of people.You should include, in addition to close family and friends, extended family, friends of the family (like a long time neighbor) work friends, bosses, and some friends of your parents.
This is a good example of that way of picking people, plus a description of who belongs in each circle.
http://www.vowsforlife.com/bridal_party/...
Reply:hunni listen to me... only invite the people who matter...You're close friends and family. It's the happiest day of you're life, you only get this moment with that man once, you want the most important people to share it with you... good luck sweetie
Reply:Other then family, here are the people who should be invited:
Spouse or Fiance of wedding party members
Parents of child attendants
the pastor/officant and spouse
Spouse or Fiance of invited guests (meaning, if you invite your boss, you have to invite his wife to)
Of course, immediatly family (parents, siblings and their spouses, grandparents) should be invited. Next would be extended family and close friends.
Then you have co-workers, older friends, parents' friends, etc - who can be added if space allows but are optional.
Reply:My fiancee and I are in a similar situation...co-workers and people that we haven't talked to in about a year were the 1st ones to get dropped from the list. We sat down and really talked about it. It wasn't easy and I know we're going to hurt someone's feelings but because of the size of our reception site and the size of our budget, we need to leave some people off.
Good luck and congratulations!
Reply:you don't have to invite 200-250 people that is just how many people are allowed in the space. Invite who you want, start with family and close friends once you've invited them then see how many people you have left, coworkers are always good people to invite
Who to Invite to the wedding?
Unfortunately that's going to happen despite your best intentions. When planning my reception, we married out of the country and had a reception at home a week later, I had to put a stop to the number of people being included because my then fiance was wanting to invite everyone and their brother!
We finally settled on immediate family, close relatives (these are the ones you see/talk to more often than at funerals, weddings %26amp; family reunions), friends (talk to/see weekly or a couple times a month), parents friends who have known you your entire life, co-workers (that you see socially, not just in the office). And even those we went over and over. We too didn't want to leave anyone out but sometimes, it just can't be helped.
And a big oversight to watch out for when doing your guest list is partners. When you invite your friend Jill, don't forget to include her friend Jack as her guest, married couples and significant others also count as 2 guests not just 1. You didn't mention if you're including children. (We didn't because I know several children who are finicky eaters and I wasn't catering to their picky appetites.) So you could find that by iinviting your Aunt Mary and Uncle John and family you've included 5 people to your total guest list.
I just saw someone else mention the wedding party count as guests too...but don't forget to count their partners, spouses, significant others, etc.
Reply:Your best friends.
Reply:Make a priority list, then invite as many as you can from the top down.
Reply:The people you're not super-close with, like co-workers and neighbors who aren't really friends, will totally understand being left off the guest list. After all, everyone knows that a wedding can be a very costly affair, and the building requirements of many structures that host weddings make the list limited. Aside from family and close friends, you shouldn't invite anyone except the people you truly want to see there. After your limit has been met, if there are still people that you feel bad about not inviting because they're not really close to you or your fiance, you could host a wedding brunch a couple days before your wedding, like a little pre-game party at a nice restaurant, where you pay for everyone's meal and have a little toast to your marriage and stuff like that. Lots of times, people are just happy to be included somehow.
Reply:Invite people whom you and your groom are comfortable with....write it down and make sure your plans are correct....
Reply:Split the list up. Invite those you really really want to be there. Then take the remaining number of guests and split them equally between your parents and your fiance's parents. Trust me they have friends, co workers, neighbors etc... that they feel they just have to invite.
Reply:Inviten the people you truly want there. Since there is a limit try to pick the really special people in your life. Just because the hall holds 200-250 people doesn't mean you have to pack the place. One thing to remember is when you start inviting a bunch of people, then you risk the chance of not being able to invite EVERYONE then people end up getting hurt at you.... so stick with the close friend, family and loved ones and your wedding will be perfect.
Reply:hiya hun.
im having the exact same problem. im getting married in may and only have 100 invites.
what i had to do is yes invite my nearest and dearest, but also had a hard job on not offending people i couldnt invite.. so what i did is i invited the people i see the most often to the wedding, because hun you cant please everyone. BUT so not to offend ppl i explained to them i couldnt invite them to the wedding due to numbers and costs and invited everyone who couldnt come to the wedding round for almost like a wedding shower. there was wine and loads of food and music. it was great! yes i felt bad because i couldnt invite them all. but you cant please everyone all at the same time.
just remember that and youl be fine :)
Reply:colleagues, neighbours, former classmates %26amp; teachers %26amp; inviting a famous, charming personality like beyonce, ronan keating or prince william would be great...
Reply:What you need to do is of course, start with your wedding party (Bridesmaids and Groomsmen and family in wedding) They are part of your guest list count. Then, do immediate family....then your most important other family and friends. If you have any spaces left, add more extended family and friends.
Reply:First you should invite close family members and friends. Then when you have a list for that group of people and you still have room invite other family members and friends that you aren't that necessarily close to. The only people that are going to truly feel left out are the people that you are close to so you start with that group first.
Reply:I would first invite immediate family and close friends. Don't forget to include you, your fiance, and your wedding party into your total because you are part of that tally. Find out how many people you have with this amount of people. Next think of family members that are not immediate but you still would like to come. Figure out your tally from this point. Next you could invite coworkers if you choose or other friends and family members.
Reply:Good grief, that is alot of people. Don;t invite everyone just to fill up a overblown guest list.
Family
Best friends
A few selected co-workers
Well known neighbors
Out-of town relatives
Reply:this is very complictaed, and inevitably osmeone will get their feelings hurt. rule of thumb...if you havent seen or spoken to the peple in 2 yrs, then dont invite them. also, coworkers who are not friends dont need to be there. if you wouldnt include them in a party at your house, why would you invite them to your wedding?
Reply:My friends invited the closest friend first- the people that they just couldn't fit were sent invites to the party/reception to show up right before the cake was cut, but after dinner. They were happy- they got to show up for the most fun part.
Reply:I don't know why you said "only" that's a fairly large guest list to make.
Use letters or numbers to designate each circle of people.You should include, in addition to close family and friends, extended family, friends of the family (like a long time neighbor) work friends, bosses, and some friends of your parents.
This is a good example of that way of picking people, plus a description of who belongs in each circle.
http://www.vowsforlife.com/bridal_party/...
Reply:hunni listen to me... only invite the people who matter...You're close friends and family. It's the happiest day of you're life, you only get this moment with that man once, you want the most important people to share it with you... good luck sweetie
Reply:Other then family, here are the people who should be invited:
Spouse or Fiance of wedding party members
Parents of child attendants
the pastor/officant and spouse
Spouse or Fiance of invited guests (meaning, if you invite your boss, you have to invite his wife to)
Of course, immediatly family (parents, siblings and their spouses, grandparents) should be invited. Next would be extended family and close friends.
Then you have co-workers, older friends, parents' friends, etc - who can be added if space allows but are optional.
Reply:My fiancee and I are in a similar situation...co-workers and people that we haven't talked to in about a year were the 1st ones to get dropped from the list. We sat down and really talked about it. It wasn't easy and I know we're going to hurt someone's feelings but because of the size of our reception site and the size of our budget, we need to leave some people off.
Good luck and congratulations!
Reply:you don't have to invite 200-250 people that is just how many people are allowed in the space. Invite who you want, start with family and close friends once you've invited them then see how many people you have left, coworkers are always good people to invite
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