Sunday, May 23, 2010

What can i do when no one wants to invite me to do anything?

I HAVE SOME FAMILY MEMBERS THAT WENT ON A TRIP AND THEY DID NOT EVEN ASK ME IF I WOULD LIKE TO GO
What can i do when no one wants to invite me to do anything?
Don't worry about the caps, let the touchy nerds who get offended by it suck it up. (that's my take on the caps issue at least ;D)





First off, don't be offended, you must realize that for the most part, people are not purposfully mean. So give them the benefit of the doubt as much as possible and don't worry about it.





Also, you can go off and do fun stuff on your own or talk to nice lads like us on the internet :D





Lastly, you could gently insinuate your feelings by asking in a ever so slightly meaningfull way how the trip was.





Hope that helped
Reply:you could sit in ur rm and be misrable maybe they will notice or you could be annoying
Reply:maybe they thought you wouldn't want to
Reply:That was not very nice of them. Are these the same family members that usually do this to you? If that's the case, I wouldn't run after them over it. If they didn't want you with them, they could have at least had the courtesy to tell you why. I was way too honest and sensitive as a child, and many times left out because of it. Truth be told, most people aren't that honest, and don't feel comfortable being around someone who is, so it's easier to leave you out, or be mean to you rather then perhaps start being honest with themselves, cause you bring it out in them. Learn to find interests that you like, and spend time developing them.
Reply:Go on a trip with some one Else and don't ask them.
Reply:its not all about you, maybe change your attitude
Reply:If typing in CAPS is an idication that you yell alot....


Might be a valid reason.
Reply:Do something fun on your own. Maybe invite some friends over for a girls'/guys' night out.
Reply:Maybe it was because you type things in all caps.
Reply:invite to get invited this is perhaps a good phrase for you may be your relatives had some bad experience about you or the place where they went must not have been of your liking be positive in your approach
Reply:some family memeber dont want to do every thign together it is best for you to be creative do your own thing so they can notice that you also have plans and there fun then they are going to ask you to come with them.

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