Why would he invite me in for sex then only last 45 seconds?

okay so this guy and i have had sex once before and it lasted about 15 minutes... not too long, not too short.





its been 3 months and he needed a ride to his house. when we got there he asked me to come inside and have sex, but said he only had 1 hour and 30 min to spare b/c he had plans that night. i refused at first, but after he insisted, i said ok.





well he warmed me up for about 10 minutes, during which time i didnt touch him at all. then he put on a condom and lasted 45 seconds! what was the point in that???
Why would he invite me in for sex then only last 45 seconds?
He is not your boyfriend or man so why is you complaining...he didn't tell you how long it was gone take to have sex, next time you have sex with someone, at least go out to dinner or a movie or see what is he is about before judging him..he got his and don't give a dam how you get yours..See one thing about males is that if you have no respect for yourself, then you will get treated in a negative way. You want someone that's gone respect you, spend some time with you, get to know you, so when you do have sex, it can last for a very long time..
Reply:HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH





poor you





i wouldnt do it again





not that you need telling...HAHAHAHAH
Reply:HA HA HA He is a 2-Pump chump!!!





Anyway the point was he got his rocks off and then still was able to go out to the "other thing"...which was likely meeting another woman...And she likely got the full performance instead of the preview
Reply:he used u for a spem bag so he can last longer for the one he was really going out with later
Reply:that's hilarious, thanks for the laughs kid
Reply:The point? I think that is obvious. His sexual gratification. You aren't important to him. You got used because you allowed it.
Reply:He satisfied HIMSELF - don't go for that again.......
Reply:You shouldnt have had sex with him... He only did it cause you let him.
Reply:Hes a guy, a guy only cared about sex and doesn't matter the time. Well, no, they don't only only care about it, but when your already goeing to, however long makes them happy
Reply:tease him
Reply:You're probably incredibly sexy to him and he wants to make sure he "does it for you." Thus the reason for his short-term performance. You just take him there that quickly with that much intensity. But, he also is involved in something else of some kind or there wouldn't have been the specific amount of time to spare. The prolonged foreplay was his sincere effort to do for you what you do for him.
Reply:boys are so weird
Reply:I really hate to say this hunny but it sounded like he was using you.....Noone deserves that! You should hold out for a fella who take his time and savour you!!
Reply:Either he hadn't had any in a long time, or your one hot juicy babe.
Reply:girl he probably was thirsty as hell, and hadnt had sex in a minute....and 15 mins.....thats short....hell my 1st time i went longer than that!.he either got some thirsty swimmers, or his stuff is fucked up....oh annd bout the 45 seconds.......it could b u girl. you mite just have some excellent wet wet and he couldnt control himself....i say u roll wit a black guy if u want the required results!!!!!!!LOL!!!!!
Reply:did you know that most sexual intercourses don't last more than a minute? those 15 minutes, a hour ones, etc. are mythes and only happen in movies and comedies.
Reply:Your a whore......thats why! : D
Reply:Damn girl he wasn't doin it right...and u need someone who can give u what u want 4 real and 15 secs just ain't normal! and if he wanted to embarrass him self more he should have been dressed in a clown suit and tried to hit! lol..but maybe it was his first time but even the thats really not an excuse cuz on average the first time is about 30 mins.
Reply:Well, he came fast. It happens. But, aparently, the bigger issue is do you want to be his sex toy or do you want something serious? Because that seems to be all he wants from you...sex.
Reply:He was horny..sometimes guys get off too early..give him a break
Reply:Obvoulsy he hadnt had sex in a while and you really excite him. The only reason I am answering this post is because one of the respondants said that sex never lasts 15 minutes, mostly 1 minute, and over 15 minutes is a myth. HA HA HA. enjoy being a loser who doesn't know how to get down. Ive had sex for 1 minute, Ive had sex for hours. Sucks that you can't seem to muster more then 30 seconds, what a pathetic existance. But I guess the saying is true, some can, some can't.
Reply:HIS sexual gratification


I'm assuming he made no attempt to get things running again after the fact.