Does you child of 11.y.o invite kids daily at home?how do you handle with cleaning etc?

tell ur son he has to ok it with u first, then limit the days he can have friends over and telll them they have to clean up after themselves teaches all involved a good lesson
Does you child of 11.y.o invite kids daily at home?how do you handle with cleaning etc?
hi ,the best way to handle that is to set up rules for your son and his friends ,when they come over to play on a daily bases.your son need s to know that you are not their to pick up after him and his friends,ask him to pick up after him self and have his friends pick up after themselves,this way you don't have that much work to do after they have gone home ,if you teach this to him daily he will pick up after himself with out you asking,it works trust me ,i learned that when i was young,always teach him that if he want his friends to come over that he should make sure that they don't make a mess ,and if they do that they should clean it up ,other wise no one can be invited to come over, explain to your son that you have other things to do than just clean up behind him and his friends,instill this untill he gets it ,well take care i hope this helped you out bye now
Reply:I have 7 children and one on the way. I don't need an extra mouth to feed and an extra kid to take care of every day. My children know this and respect it. They can go outside and play with their friends anytime they want to, but I only invite other children into my home when my kids ask me a day in advance.
Reply:My kids are allowed to have friends over during certain times. They have to ask permission to have friends over. As far as cleaning...cleaning what...cleaning up after the kids? They clean up after themselves. If they can't help clean up the messes they make they aren't invited back.
Reply:i was never allowed to have friends over w/o first asking, and our kids are the same... therefore, no, i would not have to worry about having kids over at my house daily... maybe on the weekend, but thats it, and my kids know they will clean up after themselves, or no more friends... end of story!