Should I invite any other girl to have sex with me and my boyfriend. (3som)?

I dont know. Me and my boyfriend talked about it but I would rather have another dude. What should I do?
Should I invite any other girl to have sex with me and my boyfriend. (3som)?
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Reply:talk to him about it tell him.





try both wayss?





idkk. good luckk
Reply:invite the friend....3som's should only consist of 2 females and 1 guy not 2 guys and 1 female!!!!
Reply:A big no no!!! You will always think in the back of your head thoughts of the both of them together. Plus your relationship will never be the same. Now, if you were never planning on a lenghty relationship with this person in the first palce, then I say go for it.
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Reply:ew.....3 somes are nasty....
Reply:Bear in mind that him wanting the third person to be another girl is just his way of saying "i'm getting bored with having sex with just you, honey!" His interest lies in getting to have sex with another girl, not with trying something new that will turn you on, too. He figures if you're there, and you've okayed it, then it's not cheating. Tell him you want the third person to be a guy, and see how fast he changes his tune on wanting a threesome!
Reply:3soms is the devil!
Reply:if you are secure in your relationship and your sexualability to please your boyfriend fine but if not then dont cause he may like what the other girl can do better and u may get jealous. Not to mention a disease if she isnt clean.
Reply:........it doesn't matter, the relationship bound for failure now anyway.
Reply:No! No! No! You will regret it.
Reply:Hello,





I'm assuming you are a young person. I only tell you this because I care about the young of this world. You asked the question that you did. I don't know if you and your boyfriend have considered it, but have you ever considered what God thinks about your sexual activity before marriage? I'm only say this in love. Perhaps I do not know you, but love you enough to tell you the truth. God, the person who made you doesn't want you to have sex before marriage. He wanted you to wait and to save yourself for that special one that God wanted for you. The Lord said himself this about what HE thinks about sex before marriage: "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4





He said the "marriage bed" was undefiled before Him. God ordained marriage, but he doesn't approve of having sex outside of marriage or multiple couple unions in sexual relations even when you are married, much less outside of the union of marriage. You can say I'm old fashioned and don't know what I'm talking about, but I'm only telling you the truth. You may think that there are not any virgins in this world that save themselves and love themselves enough to not give up that special thing God gave to them, their virginity. There is another verse I want to give you about the things in which God doesn't condone so that you can see that it's not coming from me, but from what God says and what God thinks. It's called the works of the flesh and there are things God lists in these that he doen't condone:


19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,


20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,


21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God." Galatians 5:19-21


Fornication falls under what you have described. You asked the question: what should I do? You should stop having sex with your boyfriend and repent to God for what you have done wrong and ask Jesus into your heart so that HE can HELP YOU to live right. That boyfriend of yours, if he pressured you into sex or if you no longer wanted to have sex and he disagreed with that decision - then he isn't worth it. He doesn't really even love you because RESPECT is a precursor for true, real LOVE. If he loved and respected your body the way God does, he wouldn't want you to have sex with him and would wait until you are married. I am old enough to know that men that want sex before marriage don't have love for you. What this is is just lust. There is a difference between real love and just dirty lust. All that is in this life that young and old people alike are concerned about can be taken to the ultimate authority - The Holy Book, the Bible -all the answers from God. Oh, it may be unpopular among your friends, but what counts is what GOD thinks and what GOD'S opinion on ANY subject is. If you know that God doesn't want you sleeping around and having sex outside marriage, then wouldn't you want to please him in that? I feel for you. You may get angry and hate me for it, but I'm telling you this because I care about you, yes, even if I don't know you...want to know why? Because the God in my life cares for you far more than anyone else can. There's nothing like waiting for that true Godly mate in marriage that God has for you. I know many Godly married couples that waited until they were married and they have never regreted it! God can bless a marriage in ways you cannot imagine. Who do you think invented sex - GOD DID. God made sex for a married couple, not for people to just have sex with some partner or partners - that's lust and I can tell you of a truth that the devil is a BIG part of all that is going on there, whether you choose to believe it or not. The devil loves for a person to degrade themselves, especially in the sexual arena. He wants people to have sex outside marriage. God does not - He wants you to keep yourself pure and clean before HIM. I didn't have God in my life until I had messed up my life and I allowed things to happen to me that were wrong and I can say I've always regretted not waiting. I didn't have direction in my life, had an alcoholic father and an abusive home and was out on my own without anyone to care for me. I had a boyfriend, too, and looking back on it - He didn't believe in God, didn't go to church, and he was the one that seduced me into all that went on, BUT, we are all free moral agents and God gives people free choice, but one day we won't have free choice anymore at the end of this life. What we do in this life will depend upon where we spend eternity in the next; heaven or hell. If someone would have talked to me back then before I made all those mistakes, I would have listened. I didn't have any love and if I had a big sister or a mentor that had God in their life to tell me like I'm telling ti to you straight, I would have saved myself before marriage. God thinks highly of a virgin - for she or he is pure and clean before him. God, though, in all his love and mercy can forgive and it would be like it never happend. "If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature, old things have passed away, behold, all things are become new." The blood of Christ cleanses any sinner from all that they've ever done wrong and his spirit comes into them to dwell - helping that person - to live holy before him. I am a single lady and have had Christ in my heart of about 11 years. I have never had sex since the day I came to God, nor will I ever, until he brings the special person he's chosen for me to marry. I am proof that a person can live a holy life. Take this for what it is worth - which I believe - is priceless information for you, personally. I told it to you straight. I know what I'm talking about. If you don't accept what I've said, I pray, one day soon, that the Lord will help you see that I am right and I have given you not my truth, but the TRUTH that came straight from God.





Blessings,


With Love,


blessed2serve
Reply:Do you want AIDS?
Reply:noooooooooooo....why u gonna share ur man for??? thats nasty and if u n ur man break up hes gonna spread rumors around sayin all the nasty things u did. have respect for yourself. NOOOO...eww
Reply:another girl..... for u its a 3some but for him its a gay experiance.
Reply:Hm, you know these are the types of bf %26amp; gf type relationships that have arrangements I think. I know this couple, I don't know, I think the bloke is the one that's driving whatever happens here. It sounds like they occasionally have 3somes because he does whatever with other females when he supposedly is seeing this one other girl. This kind of open relationship is being practised more often than we think. If you want to do this in your current relationship, go for it. Hope you enjoy it.
Reply:Well if you and your boyfriend are at that point to where you wont get jelous then maybe you should go to a swingers club you can pick out a couple and go from there. I honestly dont think you want a dude in your threesome because your boyfriend will feel left out cause he doesnt swing that way so the whole swinger idea is more like he gets his and your get yours equal share!
Reply:sure. invite me! ;)
Reply:another dude. do u honestly want ur bf having sex wit another girl?
Reply:How about invite a couple? That way you both get to have fun, adn he can't throw it inyour face..
Reply:So you're trying to get pregnant but you want to have sex with someone else.


Sounds like you really have you scene together!


Good luck with all that!
Reply:Do you want to? If yes, then do it. If not, definitely don't. You will never forget the decision you make.